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Post by Dani on Mar 13, 2019 18:40:21 GMT
I’m not gonna comment on this whole post since it’s not exactly relevant to this discussion we are having here IMO. Also, cute opinion there to call us all not true fans. Hmmm🤔 ok. Im gonna comment on the last part about “following the rule”. It’s naive to think that you can choose what type of people will appear in your life with what type of attitude and energy. Especially online and especially when you’re a major public person like her. What you can do is choose and learn is how to respond to all kind of people. I mean, you don’t want it to change you and make you ugly too, just because they are, right? Also, most of us are not talking about the shit she gets, of course she should respond to it if she wants, but this was an opinion someone had that was different from her. And opinions to me are different than personal attacks. Opinions should be free and shouldn’t deserve attacks, since they are personal opinions. She’s done this a couple of times already, not just now. Just like Carey. You can judge people by their opinions but you shouldn’t attack them because they hit a sensitive spot in you. That’s what we’re saying here. And we are seeing that this is affecting her and changing her and making her negative, and to me if someone saw that in me I’d be happy to hear it. And to me that’s a TRUE FRIEND or fan or whatever you wanna call it. No, we don’t think she’s always been like this. But maybe you know her personally? And yes, if you are a public person, having comments on your posts or tweets, you WILL receive all kinds of posts from all kinds people thinking all kinds of things about you and what you do no matter how perfect you are. It’s simple as that. Take it or leave it, drown in it or let it go, but if it’s gonna change you then maybe think again if it’s worth reacting on or not, since I mean, they are just opinions by random people online, people that don’t mean anything to you. And if you can’t focus on the positives, the love, the happy in your life, negativity and strong different opinions will slowly diminish your light and eat you up. I'm sorry I didn't mean any disrespect. I wasn't calling you NOT her true fan you are definitely the definition of a true fan. What I meant was that for those who have followed her for a long time know that she is and has always been one to speak her mind and that's the rebel we fell in love with. No, I do not know her personally, but i wish I did(lol). I agree that opinions are different than personal attacks but some people use them as attacks and know how and when to use them as such.We shouldn't let ones actions dictate our reactions but we are all human and sometimes it happens even to the best of us. I just guess I've been ridiculed or made fun of for one thing or another most my life and have lost my cool a time or two when I was younger. Did that make it right? No it didn't but I got a bit of satisfaction if just for that moment because I was tired of it. Now that I'm older I try to put myself into the other persons shoes to see how I'd feel. Maybe she had that same moment took a minute to cool down and that's when she removed the post I don't know. We never know what someone is going through behind closed doors to make us react to what we do, so maybe constructive criticism would be better than negative comments. Like I said I'm sorry and didn't mean to disrespect or offend anyone that's not what I was trying to do at all.  It’s OK. And, you’re right. I can be a total bitch when I’m worried. |
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Post by dsmart69 on Mar 14, 2019 1:37:13 GMT
I'm sorry I didn't mean any disrespect. I wasn't calling you NOT her true fan you are definitely the definition of a true fan. What I meant was that for those who have followed her for a long time know that she is and has always been one to speak her mind and that's the rebel we fell in love with. No, I do not know her personally, but i wish I did(lol). I agree that opinions are different than personal attacks but some people use them as attacks and know how and when to use them as such.We shouldn't let ones actions dictate our reactions but we are all human and sometimes it happens even to the best of us. I just guess I've been ridiculed or made fun of for one thing or another most my life and have lost my cool a time or two when I was younger. Did that make it right? No it didn't but I got a bit of satisfaction if just for that moment because I was tired of it. Now that I'm older I try to put myself into the other persons shoes to see how I'd feel. Maybe she had that same moment took a minute to cool down and that's when she removed the post I don't know. We never know what someone is going through behind closed doors to make us react to what we do, so maybe constructive criticism would be better than negative comments. Like I said I'm sorry and didn't mean to disrespect or offend anyone that's not what I was trying to do at all. It’s OK. And, you’re right. I can be a total bitch when I’m worried. No your not ..I definitely don't think that at all  ..I was wondering if you saw that post on twitter about P!nk retiring and what your thoughts were |
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Post by Nicotine.Head on Mar 17, 2019 21:04:03 GMT
Okay I didn’t see the video before I posted. I did lol though She should stay off social media to be honest 😂 No she shouldn’t. She should do whatever she wants but if she can’t handle people telling her something else than whatever she has in her mind or wants to hear without reacting out of proportion to what it is, then maybe she should turn off the comment section. You’re kinda contradicting yourself though. ANYWAY: where’s the video snd what did she say? |
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Post by Dani on Mar 17, 2019 21:12:52 GMT
No she shouldn’t. She should do whatever she wants but if she can’t handle people telling her something else than whatever she has in her mind or wants to hear without reacting out of proportion to what it is, then maybe she should turn off the comment section. You’re kinda contradicting yourself though. ANYWAY: where’s the video snd what did she say? That’s how I roll  |
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..I was wondering if you saw that post on twitter about P!nk retiring and what your thoughts were
