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Post by donna on Mar 10, 2019 11:21:57 GMT
Ah peeps in fairness to her, imagine how frustrating it is strangers telling you on the daily that you are parenting wrong, don’t understand cause you have too much money, everyone is a know it all these days especially when it comes to children. I guess when your in the public eye it’s all magnified. The fact that she snapped is human reaction.
I understand she can turn off comments but its great that she wants to want to interact instead of shut herself off to the fans. She defo picks up on the positive more than the negative. ✌️
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Post by Dani on Mar 10, 2019 11:59:05 GMT
She was not the only one snapping this time. Maybe both she and we need bigger problems in our lives so we can stop caring about unnecessary shit like this.
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Post by pumpkinshoes on Mar 10, 2019 12:50:59 GMT
I was a bit chocked/surprised to see the video. I too think it was a disproportionate reaction from her to the tweet. I'm not a mom or a parent but I can imagine that having people constantly judge the way you take care of your kids hits a super sensitive place, over and over again. She is only human and she can be short tempered, but still it makes me sad to see her get mean and rude. At the end of the day I don't think it would help anyone to handle something like this in an offensive way, the way she and Carey is doing it. It just takes away so much energy and creates more anger and frustration.
Considering that she deleted the video and now on her latest IG post liked a lot of positive comments and replied to some, seems like she maybe took in some of the responses she got or just realized herself that she reacted too harsh.
She herself has said that she likes to teach Willow that "we don't say things we don't mean and we don't say mean things".
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Post by Dani on Mar 11, 2019 5:25:11 GMT
So she started blocking people. That’s one way to handle it I guess 🤷🏽♀️ Better than posting them video rages again. Someone said she should post the music video pics and stop posting pics of her kids because she’s flopping. I hope she doesn’t think that whatever some of these people are saying is true just because they say it 😟💔 But it does seem like she can’t just scroll by comments like these and move on without any action and that’s a shame because they will just grow more 😐
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Post by coreyhard on Mar 11, 2019 11:10:56 GMT
I don’t blame her reply at all. That person is obviously baiting for drama and nitpicking. I deal with these type of hates all the time. You can’t do anything right. She just had enough. Y’all don’t see it? She’s speaking about private dinner keeping it away from the world and the guy tries to call Her a hypocrite but says he’s a fan. He is confused. Edit: people are saying this guy isn’t a troll. He was one hundo being a troll and just looking to start shit. The comment was unnecessary 100% and just a another annoying person critiquing. Don’t get the big deal. It’s a free work, we’re allowrd to tell people to fuck off and go fuck themskeves and eat a dick At the end of the day I guess it’s about what kind of person we chose to be. exactly. and she chose to be that way now. i dont like it. others still defend her. everyone as he pleases. |
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Post by qcpatdive on Mar 11, 2019 12:43:08 GMT
So she started blocking people. That’s one way to handle it I guess 🤷🏽♀️ Better than posting them video rages again. Someone said she should post the music video pics and stop posting pics of her kids because she’s flopping. I hope she doesn’t think that whatever some of these people are saying is true just because they say it 😟💔 But it does seem like she can’t just scroll by comments like these and move on without any action and that’s a shame because they will just grow more 😐 how did you know that? People talked about it? I'm so disappointed 😞.People are crazy sometimes with their comments, but I don't understand her reaction. It could be appropriate to block someone when he/she writes negatives comments more than once, or a very very very mean comment, but not based on one random comment. I hope she blocked the "real" trolls and not fans who don't share the same opinion... |
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Post by Dani on Mar 11, 2019 13:21:20 GMT
So she started blocking people. That’s one way to handle it I guess 🤷🏽♀️ Better than posting them video rages again. Someone said she should post the music video pics and stop posting pics of her kids because she’s flopping. I hope she doesn’t think that whatever some of these people are saying is true just because they say it 😟💔 But it does seem like she can’t just scroll by comments like these and move on without any action and that’s a shame because they will just grow more 😐 how did you know that? People talked about it? I'm so disappointed 😞.People are crazy sometimes with their comments, but I don't understand her reaction. It could be appropriate to block someone when he/she writes negatives comments more than once, or a very very very mean comment, but not based on one random comment. I hope she blocked the "real" trolls and not fans who don't share the same opinion... She wrote it on the guy's comment. Something like "and people wonder why I tell people to kick rocks. Blocked". I don't understand either. I thought she was more confident than this. Kinda just wanna give her a hug or something. She'd probably just punch me and tell me to go to hell after reading the board but I guess I can handle that  |
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Post by Dani on Mar 11, 2019 13:24:46 GMT
At the end of the day I guess it’s about what kind of person we chose to be. exactly. and she chose to be that way now. i dont like it. others still defend her. everyone as he pleases. I think something else is making her sensitive. I'm not defending her, but that's what I think. She used to be thick skinned, but not now. Hopefully it'll be better soon. |
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Post by coreyhard on Mar 11, 2019 13:33:01 GMT
exactly. and she chose to be that way now. i dont like it. others still defend her. everyone as he pleases. I think something else is making her sensitive. I'm not defending her, but that's what I think. She used to be thick skinned, but not now. Hopefully it'll be better soon. for years? i dont know. to me shes now just being herself to the fullest. but no one besides her knows the truth. so we are all kind of right and wrong. |
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Post by Dani on Mar 11, 2019 13:49:51 GMT
I think something else is making her sensitive. I'm not defending her, but that's what I think. She used to be thick skinned, but not now. Hopefully it'll be better soon. for years? i dont know. to me shes now just being herself to the fullest. but no one besides her knows the truth. so we are all kind of right and wrong. I don't think I've seen her react this much on random people. I know she's been upset with politics and Kanye West and maybe other 'famous' people but yeah.. maybe  |
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Post by itsviki on Mar 12, 2019 0:39:17 GMT
Well I just feel like I should unfollow her on IG. I don't like what I see there at all from her for a couple of months now... Makes me sad  Carey is coming off as douche nowadays and I hope she doesn't follow his path...It's so dissapointing. I don't know if she has changed or I changed or she was always like this but I was blinded by the love I feel for her..idk. I hate that I have these thoughts. I hope shes okay. Sorry guys don't bite my head off! |
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Post by Hooker on Mar 12, 2019 7:50:04 GMT
That person had a point, but then I don't have an Instagram account and think it's lame how it's apparently normal now to upload our lives.
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Post by dsmart69 on Mar 13, 2019 4:31:55 GMT
I didn't see anything in her initial post that needed any type of negative comment, even though the comment wasn't that negative it was negative enough to stir the pot.I feel people do that just to see what type of reaction they are going to get. Negative people love to push buttons. As a parent, and not a famous one, I can see both sides. Everyone would like to see her be able to take the criticism let it roll off her back and maybe just delete the negative comments and block whoever posted them, but for those true fans that know her and have followed her for years we know that usually doesn't happen but that's why we love her. She says what she means and means what she says. It has to be hard sometimes being in the public eye and always having someone criticizing what and how you do things especially with their own families. It seems, to some people nothing is ever good enough and that her and Carey can never do anything right.I use to find it hard to keep my mouth shut when my daughter was little as well, everyone becomes a critic, they assume you want their input, but in all honesty I didn't and I'm sure she doesn't either.I mean most of us were taught if you don't have anything nice to day then its better to say nothing at all. I'm sure she would love and have less negative rants if everyone just followed this rule. I love her and will never unfollow her for speaking her mind.
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Post by Dani on Mar 13, 2019 6:18:31 GMT
I didn't see anything in her initial post that needed any type of negative comment, even though the comment wasn't that negative it was negative enough to stir the pot.I feel people do that just to see what type of reaction they are going to get. Negative people love to push buttons. As a parent, and not a famous one, I can see both sides. Everyone would like to see her be able to take the criticism let it roll off her back and maybe just delete the negative comments and block whoever posted them, but for those true fans that know her and have followed her for years we know that usually doesn't happen but that's why we love her. She says what she means and means what she says. It has to be hard sometimes being in the public eye and always having someone criticizing what and how you do things especially with their own families. It seems, to some people nothing is ever good enough and that her and Carey can never do anything right.I use to find it hard to keep my mouth shut when my daughter was little as well, everyone becomes a critic, they assume you want their input, but in all honesty I didn't and I'm sure she doesn't either.I mean most of us were taught if you don't have anything nice to day then its better to say nothing at all. I'm sure she would love and have less negative rants if everyone just followed this rule. I love her and will never unfollow her for speaking her mind. I’m not gonna comment on this whole post since it’s not exactly relevant to this discussion we are having here IMO. Also, cute opinion there to call us all not true fans. Hmmm🤔 ok. Im gonna comment on the last part about “following the rule”. It’s naive to think that you can choose what type of people will appear in your life with what type of attitude and energy. Especially online and especially when you’re a major public person like her. What you can do is choose and learn is how to respond to all kind of people. I mean, you don’t want it to change you and make you ugly too, just because they are, right? Also, most of us are not talking about the shit she gets, of course she should respond to it if she wants, but this was an opinion someone had that was different from her. And opinions to me are different than personal attacks. Opinions should be free and shouldn’t deserve attacks, since they are personal opinions. She’s done this a couple of times already, not just now. Just like Carey. You can judge people by their opinions but you shouldn’t attack them because they hit a sensitive spot in you. That’s what we’re saying here. And we are seeing that this is affecting her and changing her and making her negative, and to me if someone saw that in me I’d be happy to hear it. And to me that’s a TRUE FRIEND or fan or whatever you wanna call it. No, we don’t think she’s always been like this. But maybe you know her personally? And yes, if you are a public person, having comments on your posts or tweets, you WILL receive all kinds of posts from all kinds people thinking all kinds of things about you and what you do no matter how perfect you are. It’s simple as that. Take it or leave it, drown in it or let it go, but if it’s gonna change you then maybe think again if it’s worth reacting on or not, since I mean, they are just opinions by random people online, people that don’t mean anything to you. And if you can’t focus on the positives, the love, the happy in your life, negativity and strong different opinions will slowly diminish your light and eat you up. |
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Post by dsmart69 on Mar 13, 2019 8:00:22 GMT
I didn't see anything in her initial post that needed any type of negative comment, even though the comment wasn't that negative it was negative enough to stir the pot.I feel people do that just to see what type of reaction they are going to get. Negative people love to push buttons. As a parent, and not a famous one, I can see both sides. Everyone would like to see her be able to take the criticism let it roll off her back and maybe just delete the negative comments and block whoever posted them, but for those true fans that know her and have followed her for years we know that usually doesn't happen but that's why we love her. She says what she means and means what she says. It has to be hard sometimes being in the public eye and always having someone criticizing what and how you do things especially with their own families. It seems, to some people nothing is ever good enough and that her and Carey can never do anything right.I use to find it hard to keep my mouth shut when my daughter was little as well, everyone becomes a critic, they assume you want their input, but in all honesty I didn't and I'm sure she doesn't either.I mean most of us were taught if you don't have anything nice to day then its better to say nothing at all. I'm sure she would love and have less negative rants if everyone just followed this rule. I love her and will never unfollow her for speaking her mind. I’m not gonna comment on this whole post since it’s not exactly relevant to this discussion we are having here IMO. Also, cute opinion there to call us all not true fans. Hmmm🤔 ok. Im gonna comment on the last part about “following the rule”. It’s naive to think that you can choose what type of people will appear in your life with what type of attitude and energy. Especially online and especially when you’re a major public person like her. What you can do is choose and learn is how to respond to all kind of people. I mean, you don’t want it to change you and make you ugly too, just because they are, right? Also, most of us are not talking about the shit she gets, of course she should respond to it if she wants, but this was an opinion someone had that was different from her. And opinions to me are different than personal attacks. Opinions should be free and shouldn’t deserve attacks, since they are personal opinions. She’s done this a couple of times already, not just now. Just like Carey. You can judge people by their opinions but you shouldn’t attack them because they hit a sensitive spot in you. That’s what we’re saying here. And we are seeing that this is affecting her and changing her and making her negative, and to me if someone saw that in me I’d be happy to hear it. And to me that’s a TRUE FRIEND or fan or whatever you wanna call it. No, we don’t think she’s always been like this. But maybe you know her personally? And yes, if you are a public person, having comments on your posts or tweets, you WILL receive all kinds of posts from all kinds people thinking all kinds of things about you and what you do no matter how perfect you are. It’s simple as that. Take it or leave it, drown in it or let it go, but if it’s gonna change you then maybe think again if it’s worth reacting on or not, since I mean, they are just opinions by random people online, people that don’t mean anything to you. And if you can’t focus on the positives, the love, the happy in your life, negativity and strong different opinions will slowly diminish your light and eat you up. I'm sorry I didn't mean any disrespect. I wasn't calling you NOT her true fan you are definitely the definition of a true fan. What I meant was that for those who have followed her for a long time know that she is and has always been one to speak her mind and that's the rebel we fell in love with. No, I do not know her personally, but i wish I did(lol). I agree that opinions are different than personal attacks but some people use them as attacks and know how and when to use them as such.We shouldn't let ones actions dictate our reactions but we are all human and sometimes it happens even to the best of us. I just guess I've been ridiculed or made fun of for one thing or another most my life and have lost my cool a time or two when I was younger. Did that make it right? No it didn't but I got a bit of satisfaction if just for that moment because I was tired of it. Now that I'm older I try to put myself into the other persons shoes to see how I'd feel. Maybe she had that same moment took a minute to cool down and that's when she removed the post I don't know. We never know what someone is going through behind closed doors to make us react to what we do, so maybe constructive criticism would be better than negative comments. Like I said I'm sorry and didn't mean to disrespect or offend anyone that's not what I was trying to do at all. |
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