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Post by Dani on May 17, 2019 8:08:48 GMT
Sad. And angry. The guy I thought I had invested "some time with," knew about my upcoming surgery... and this Tuesday he decided to ghost me... and he changed his number, and I only figured this out, today. Today was the day I met my surgeon ( who is nice btw). There is no way I could contact this guy anymore. Sure, I have my family and my friends... but I feel really "shit upon" to be left facing surgery all by myself after being honest with him about what was happening to me (also after having put in a month and a half of answering serious questions from him). I want to cry, but I can't. I had forgotten how angry ghosting makes me. Now I remember.... What the fuck is wrong with people! This makes me so upset. Like are you friggin a grow up or some stupid teenager? Have the fucking balls to say it in the persons face rather than even texting it! Say something, anything, even if he just needs time. But this guy is not even doing that 😡🤬 I’m so sorry you met an asshole. Not all people are like this. |
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Post by Dani on May 17, 2019 8:10:01 GMT
Also don’t forgive this silence ever! Even if you work things out later. You’ll just normalize his behavior. This guy needs a spank!
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Post by Dani on May 17, 2019 8:12:00 GMT
I’m upset. I feel like rioting.
I just found out a bunch of countries in Europe have laws against abortions and a handful of countries are debating it atm! This European Union shit can all go fuck themselves and burn in hell!
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Post by Dani on May 17, 2019 8:14:05 GMT
I'm moving.
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Post by drnick on May 17, 2019 9:47:28 GMT
I’m upset. I feel like rioting. I just found out a bunch of countries in Europe have laws against abortions and a handful of countries are debating it atm! This European Union shit can all go fuck themselves and burn in hell! What has that to do with the EU? If the people in those countries are so stupid to vote for those "Christian" parties there's nothing the EU could do about it. And if those parties are violationg the separation of church and state by forcing their religious nonsense into law, the people could vote them out. Unfortunately some people like to be oppressed. |
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Post by heehawes on May 17, 2019 10:10:24 GMT
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Post by Dani on May 17, 2019 10:28:49 GMT
I’m upset. I feel like rioting. I just found out a bunch of countries in Europe have laws against abortions and a handful of countries are debating it atm! This European Union shit can all go fuck themselves and burn in hell! What has that to do with the EU? If the people in those countries are so stupid to vote for those "Christian" parties there's nothing the EU could do about it. And if those parties are violationg the separation of church and state by forcing their religious nonsense into law, the people could vote them out. Unfortunately some people like to be oppressed. What they have to do with it? Everything. I donno how it is in Germany but we are about to vote in the EU elections and more parties than ever are debating abortion and even if it's not fully laws against it they most likely will tighten the restrictions. Croatia, Macedonia and Italy for example. Ya so voting for a party in EU that doesn't focus on these questions is what needs to happen because then they won't even have to discuss this and lose. But no one really fucking cares about the EU elections anyway so yay good.... |
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Post by Dani on May 17, 2019 10:30:44 GMT
Yes. Where ya wanna go? New Zealand? |
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Post by cpf on May 17, 2019 10:47:51 GMT
Nervous but excited aaaa
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Post by blackrosefore on May 17, 2019 11:18:56 GMT
Sad. And angry. The guy I thought I had invested "some time with," knew about my upcoming surgery... and this Tuesday he decided to ghost me... and he changed his number, and I only figured this out, today. Today was the day I met my surgeon ( who is nice btw). There is no way I could contact this guy anymore. Sure, I have my family and my friends... but I feel really "shit upon" to be left facing surgery all by myself after being honest with him about what was happening to me (also after having put in a month and a half of answering serious questions from him). I want to cry, but I can't. I had forgotten how angry ghosting makes me. Now I remember.... ugghhhh. No fun. What an asshole. He could have at least been upfront an honest rather than just disappearing. :/ I'd be angry too. Know that we are always here for you. Good luck with the surgery. ❤️ Thank you!!! I don't want you to feel like I'm begging for attention or anything on here. I'm just grieving, and because of the surgery I'm supposed to have-- my head is spinning. |
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Post by blackrosefore on May 17, 2019 11:23:41 GMT
Also don’t forgive this silence ever! Even if you work things out later. You’ll just normalize his behavior. This guy needs a spank! IRONY? This guy wanted to spank me. He was into bdsm. I am, a little, I guess -- but no, not the complete servile role he had in mind.
He's in the wind, honey. I'm not taking him back after this stint he pulled by ghosting me before I even found out what surgery I was going to have. If I run into him in a dark alley, there will be a verbal altercation. He will get a piece of my mind....
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Post by blackrosefore on May 17, 2019 11:24:44 GMT
Sad. And angry. The guy I thought I had invested "some time with," knew about my upcoming surgery... and this Tuesday he decided to ghost me... and he changed his number, and I only figured this out, today. Today was the day I met my surgeon ( who is nice btw). There is no way I could contact this guy anymore. Sure, I have my family and my friends... but I feel really "shit upon" to be left facing surgery all by myself after being honest with him about what was happening to me (also after having put in a month and a half of answering serious questions from him). I want to cry, but I can't. I had forgotten how angry ghosting makes me. Now I remember.... What the fuck is wrong with people! This makes me so upset. Like are you friggin a grow up or some stupid teenager? Have the fucking balls to say it in the persons face rather than even texting it! Say something, anything, even if he just needs time. But this guy is not even doing that 😡🤬 I’m so sorry you met an asshole. Not all people are like this. I'm sorry, too.  |
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Post by Dani on May 17, 2019 18:56:27 GMT
Also don’t forgive this silence ever! Even if you work things out later. You’ll just normalize his behavior. This guy needs a spank! IRONY? This guy wanted to spank me. He was into bdsm. I am, a little, I guess -- but no, not the complete servile role he had in mind.
He's in the wind, honey. I'm not taking him back after this stint he pulled by ghosting me before I even found out what surgery I was going to have. If I run into him in a dark alley, there will be a verbal altercation. He will get a piece of my mind....
Alright 💖 |
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Post by Dani on May 17, 2019 18:58:42 GMT
I’m feeling good. Happy. But maybe a little bit of a mess too. I think there are maybe a little too many emotions right now that I feel like I’m needing twice as many hands to even catch. They’re just all over the place. Making me feel like my hearts all over the place and the brain not so much.
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Post by Dani on May 17, 2019 19:00:31 GMT
Also I’m really really really trying and doing my best to not be impulsive. About anything atm.
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