Confessions.

I love this rainy windy stormy weather so much more than the 30-40C we had

Better start queueing now so you can get a good spot on the barrier..... Front row, bitches. ❤️

I uhm... wanna wear a wedding dress like NOW. Not sure I wanna get married though. But them wedding dresses are sooooo pretty 😩😌

See, that’s one of the reasons I don’t wanna get married, cause seriously most marriages end. So what’s the point really. Me and my future person can wear a dress and celebrate love without all the other forever fuss. Lol 🤷🏽‍♀️ I donno, maybe I’m weird. 

Also....
I’ve known some people who get married just because they think they have to. There’s like pressure with young couple who are in love.
People constantly asking “so when are you gonna pop the question?” “When is he gonna put a ring on your finger?” “When’s the big date?”.... like people make you feel like you need to do this.
I think some people just do it because they feel it’s expected of them.
Also, I think some people think the world is magically gonna be different after the wedding.
And then a lot of the time they are like, “now what”
Like, people talk about a wedding day being the biggest day of their lives, next to the birth of their children and then they hit that milestone (marriage) and are kinda left lost.
I am not against marriage at all, I have known some people with the most beautiful marriages, and long lasting. My coworker Kip and his wife are such a beautiful example of this
But they always work fucking hard. They still go on dates, and do little romantic things and are still so much in love. And I think it’s 20 years now. Or 15. They work hard at it though.
I want that some day.
They are comfortable w/ eachother, but they aren’t lazy w/ it.
They will try and look nice for eachother etc etc etc.
Hahaha.
I love it.
Sometimes I’ll come in to work early so Kip can get out of work quicker and rush home and see her or take her out.
He’ll bring nice clothes to change in to and be like “ummm.
I should probably tuck my shirt in, I think heather wants me to look more presentable” and he’ll take her to events that she loves, but he’s not really a fan of, like musicals.
And she will come to concerts w/ him.

Also they aren’t possessive.
They both let eachother have their alone time.
Heather will take her girls vacations with just her friends.
I think that is super important.
She’ll be gone for a week.
And he’ll be like “fuckkkk I miss her”
And vice versa. He will go on trips with his friends.

That’s super important I think.
You share your life together, but you also need your own identity / you’re own life.

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I dunno.
Grrrrrr.




Someday maybe.!

Also
Divorce is easy these days.
And acceptable.
And people do it, rather than fighting for what they love.

People give up sometimes.

I don’t believe every marriage can or should be saved.
But some people give up early.

It’s cool to see Pink and Carey as a couple that made their marriage work, when they could have completely given up. ❤️

Are you drunk? Or are you just trying to convince me that I should get married and that it will be good? I’m not impossible, only thinking out loud and reflecting from nowhere. If I’ll marry one day, there won’t be more than 50 ppl lolz.

Of course. Freedom, love and honesty and hard work, but one person in a gazillion really gets it and means it. Maybe I’m just having too many bad examples from my own life. I donno.

Yes, you’re totally right about that. They get married because it’s expected, which to me is to live someone else’s life and not the life you wanna live.

Also, people change, which is normal. I think that’s a reason so many get divorced. They don’t grow together, they grow apart (probably due bad communication or being too different). And that’s fine too, then it wasn’t meant to be. It sucks, but don’t force it just for the sake of it. I’m sorry if I sound egoistic and hard, but it’s just my opinion. Trust me, I probably want forever more than anyone who ever got married lol.