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Post by Dani on Apr 17, 2018 10:12:38 GMT
I have to friggin wear glasses too 😫😭😭😭😭 gagwfsjaiwgwnalauwvscatwyhahahahaha g(252782/52you uwas cagey
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Post by Dani on Apr 17, 2018 10:13:36 GMT
Minus the hahahaha, because that’s not funny at all.
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Post by drnick on Apr 17, 2018 10:25:37 GMT
Minus the hahahaha, because that’s not funny at all.  But you're fucking cute with glasses.  I love nerdy girls women.  |
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Post by Dani on Apr 17, 2018 10:37:25 GMT
Minus the hahahaha, because that’s not funny at all. girls women. With messy hair wearing a nightshirt drinking coffee in bed on Sunday mornings?  |
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Post by drnick on Apr 17, 2018 10:41:05 GMT
With messy hair wearing a nightshirt drinking coffee in bed on Sunday mornings?  Except on myself.  |
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Post by buffy on Apr 17, 2018 10:52:48 GMT
I have to friggin wear glasses too 😫😭😭😭😭 gagwfsjaiwgwnalauwvscatwyhahahahaha g(252782/52you uwas cagey What about lenses? Though I think glasses would fit you great. |
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Post by Dani on Apr 17, 2018 11:27:41 GMT
With messy hair wearing a nightshirt drinking coffee in bed on Sunday mornings? Same here  |
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Post by Dani on Apr 17, 2018 11:29:08 GMT
I have to friggin wear glasses too 😫😭😭😭😭 gagwfsjaiwgwnalauwvscatwyhahahahaha g(252782/52you uwas cagey What about lenses? Though I think glasses would fit you great. Well I went there to get lenses but the guy was like you need glasses too. Hm. Mm kaay. Whatever you say eye expert 🤓 Haha. Thank you😘 |
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Post by purple18 on Apr 17, 2018 11:44:35 GMT
I think everybody agrees.... Yeah the discussion was about dr_nick stating his opinion about tattoos and not lying about what he thinks just to make Iris happy. I mentioned an example myself that I had from the same day and now it’s down on word detail. Yeah it was one of my closest co workers that said that. The point that I tried to make with that is that I’d rather have people around me who say what they think about something I ask than trying to put glitter on their words to make it sound less of an opinion. I guess it’s because I work the same way and we’re all different which is fine. In the end no one wants to hurt or be mean to anyone. It’s not about that. But I’m still 110% with dr_nick on this one. Don’t ask me anything if you’re not ready for an honest opinion from me using my words and the vocabulary I can choose from when I’m being asked. Of course there are rude ways to say things also, this is not what I’m encouraging either. But none of these examples are rude in the way I see it. Also, being straight up honest without the glitter is one of the things I appreciate most with my friends and they about me too. ummm okay. i think trying to put something nicely and trying to sound less entitled is not the same as being dishonest or putting glitter on anything. i guess it really just comes down to being different people in the end and maybe we shouldn't make a fuss about it and accuse others of being something they are not? |
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Post by purple18 on Apr 17, 2018 11:48:34 GMT
Yeah, and that's completely OK  I agree with Diana about being nice, in general. Wording something in a positive way when possible... Also when it’s somebody you don’t know so well. Using the hair example, instead of saying “short hair is ugly, don’t cut your hair short”, you could say something nice “I’m not sure I would do that If I were you, your hair is so nice as is” However, some closer friends, I think want straight up honesty. Where I would feel comfortable saying it as it is. “I don’t think you should do it” “Why not?” “I dont think short hair like that looks good. Don’t do it” I don’t know..... I think you gotta take in to consideration who you are talking to in general w/ anything you say. yeah i generally agree that of course it is very important who you are talking to. obviously if my best friend asks my opinion it's different than my boss or coworker. but still i try to be as nice as possible because i tend to go back to these kind of discussions over and over in my head and worry that i might have said something hurtful or ignorant. |
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Post by Dani on Apr 17, 2018 12:01:11 GMT
Yeah the discussion was about dr_nick stating his opinion about tattoos and not lying about what he thinks just to make Iris happy. I mentioned an example myself that I had from the same day and now it’s down on word detail. Yeah it was one of my closest co workers that said that. The point that I tried to make with that is that I’d rather have people around me who say what they think about something I ask than trying to put glitter on their words to make it sound less of an opinion. I guess it’s because I work the same way and we’re all different which is fine. In the end no one wants to hurt or be mean to anyone. It’s not about that. But I’m still 110% with dr_nick on this one. Don’t ask me anything if you’re not ready for an honest opinion from me using my words and the vocabulary I can choose from when I’m being asked. Of course there are rude ways to say things also, this is not what I’m encouraging either. But none of these examples are rude in the way I see it. Also, being straight up honest without the glitter is one of the things I appreciate most with my friends and they about me too. ummm okay. i think trying to put something nicely and trying to sound less entitled is not the same as being dishonest or putting glitter on anything. i guess it really just comes down to being different people in the end and maybe we shouldn't make a fuss about it and accuse others of being something they are not? I accused no one I just said what I thought about this in general. It had nothing to do with you or anyone else on here or anywhere |
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Post by valerio23 on Apr 17, 2018 13:08:36 GMT
Oh well, you can do a compromise with him maybe  Like ...? 🤔 Mmmh let me think... Maybe he can let you do this tattoo even if he doesn't like it so much and you can let him do a thing that he loves and that you don't like so much. I think that in this case, talk about it is important. that doesn't mean that you don't love him or he doesn't love you, is just, how to learn to love all, about the person of your life, also the things that maybe you think it's not so ''good'' like tattoos for him and something else for you |
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Post by Sole on Apr 17, 2018 16:33:17 GMT
What about lenses? Though I think glasses would fit you great. Well I went there to get lenses but the guy was like you need glasses too. Hm. Mm kaay. Whatever you say eye expert 🤓 Haha. Thank you😘 I've been wearing lenses for many many years and I wear them every single day of my life, I can't stand glasses and I do not wear them period. But the guy is right, you need glasses just in case something happens to your lenses. Also, I don't know how expensive they are in Sweden, but here in Italy they are waaaaay too expensive so I buy them on the Internet. You just need your optical parameters (?! is it how you call it?) and you're good to go! |
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Post by Dani on Apr 17, 2018 16:38:33 GMT
Well I went there to get lenses but the guy was like you need glasses too. Hm. Mm kaay. Whatever you say eye expert 🤓 Haha. Thank you😘 I've been wearing lenses for many many years and I wear them every single day of my life, I can't stand glasses and I do not wear them period. But the guy is right, you need glasses just in case something happens to your lenses. Also, I don't know how expensive they are in Sweden, but here in Italy they are waaaaay too expensive so I buy them on the Internet. You just need your optical parameters (?! is it how you call it?) and you're good to go! Yeah, and my eyes get dry easily because I work behind a computer. That's why. Yeah everything here is super expensive I just feel this is such a bad timing  but at least I will see Pink and Jeremy much clearer this time   |
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Post by Dani on Apr 17, 2018 17:45:39 GMT
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But you're fucking cute with glasses. 
I love nerdy 
Except on myself. 
but at least I will see Pink and Jeremy much clearer this time 
