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Post by Dani on Apr 15, 2018 8:43:24 GMT
Haha, a guy from last night was this close to punch me   You know how to push buttons, huh? Wanna end up in court, too?  Me? Actually I was just dancing with my friend and this guy comes and kinda pushes us closer into each other and says "can you two make out?". What rights does he have to do that? Who the fuck is he? My reply to him was if he could suck his friends cock. And then I turned around and kept dancing with my friend. And he comes back up and says I don't suck cocks. But I'm good at fighting people. And I said OK. I'm good at both. And then he leaves. So no, I'm not good at pushing buttons I'm good at standing up for myself and people like him are not used to that. It's his problem if he gets upset, not mine. I just threw back the same shit he threw at me. And if he can't handle it then he should consider changing whatever words come out of his mouth. |
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Post by drnick on Apr 15, 2018 8:50:23 GMT
You know how to push buttons, huh? Wanna end up in court, too? Me? Actually I was just dancing with my friend and this guy comes and kinda pushes us closer into each other and says "can you two make out?". What rights does he have to do that? Who the fuck is he? My reply to him was if he could suck his friends cock. And then I turned around and kept dancing with my friend. And he comes back up and says I don't suck cocks. But I'm good at fighting people. And I said OK. I'm good at both. And then he leaves. So no, I'm not good at pushing buttons I'm good at standing up for myself and people like him are not used to that. It's his problem if he gets upset, not mine. I just threw back the same shit he threw at me. And if he can't handle it then he should consider changing whatever words come out of his mouth. Damn, you go girl woman!  What a fucking idiot!  |
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Post by Dani on Apr 15, 2018 9:12:47 GMT
Me? Actually I was just dancing with my friend and this guy comes and kinda pushes us closer into each other and says "can you two make out?". What rights does he have to do that? Who the fuck is he? My reply to him was if he could suck his friends cock. And then I turned around and kept dancing with my friend. And he comes back up and says I don't suck cocks. But I'm good at fighting people. And I said OK. I'm good at both. And then he leaves. So no, I'm not good at pushing buttons I'm good at standing up for myself and people like him are not used to that. It's his problem if he gets upset, not mine. I just threw back the same shit he threw at me. And if he can't handle it then he should consider changing whatever words come out of his mouth. Damn, you go girl woman! What a fucking idiot! Indeed. So many people today lack respect to other people. Maybe those should be put in child re-raise rehab so that they learn the practical mening behind the word and not just how to spell it. |
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Post by pumpkinshoes on Apr 15, 2018 17:47:59 GMT
I'd let her do the decision without at first saying too much of your opinions. I would imagine that even though it's a hard decision she will probably want to publish the study after all the work she's done and the significance of the results. I mean that's why you do the research. But If I were her I would like to have some time to make a conscious decision, instead of just running into the shit storm. But I find it hard to believe that she's not already fully aware of the possible consequences? If I were the researcher I would also appreciate hearing from the people around me that they understand the risks that go with publishing the results but that they will be there for support 100 %. The worst is to feel alone in a situation like that. Thanks for the input. She is aware, but don't think she knows how big this thing could turn out to be. She mentioned some local media already hearing about it and being interested. And I told her do not talk to anyone about this yet. Because doing that even with the local news could make her end up all over the news in the whole country. I think I will tell her about all kinds of possibilities and scenarios to this and let her decide what to do. And put this 100% on her to decide. So no opinions from me at all. There is a way to publish stuff with just the uni name being on it without the authors, so that could be an option if she doesn't feel like she wants creds for it. The sucky thing is that media can't understand shit when reading reports of this kind, so they usually don't get the deal, plus it takes ages for them to even check through it, so the possibility of them not wanting to give it a chance, especially without anyone explaining or talking about the study, is pretty big. They simply don't have the time. I know she's doing this thing with one of our old professors that's on an another university. He's a rock. He's a genius. I'm sure he will support her and be by her side in whatever she decides to do. The other three researchers that are on the list are badass. Media loves them because they are pretty controversial, especially about immigration and inequality. That's why they are so hated by these groups, but they don't give a crap kinda. That sounds like a great idea, to tell her about all the possibilties and scenarios. It would be a shame if it would go unnoticed by media if they're not up to digging into it without a interview with her. I do understand the time issue though. Whatever your researcher decides to do, hopefully this will get publicity without her getting harassed. They win if they manage to scare people into silence. I'm glad she has the professor as support! If it ends up getting written about in media I'd love to read the stuff  |
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Post by Dani on Apr 15, 2018 18:01:54 GMT
Thanks for the input. She is aware, but don't think she knows how big this thing could turn out to be. She mentioned some local media already hearing about it and being interested. And I told her do not talk to anyone about this yet. Because doing that even with the local news could make her end up all over the news in the whole country. I think I will tell her about all kinds of possibilities and scenarios to this and let her decide what to do. And put this 100% on her to decide. So no opinions from me at all. There is a way to publish stuff with just the uni name being on it without the authors, so that could be an option if she doesn't feel like she wants creds for it. The sucky thing is that media can't understand shit when reading reports of this kind, so they usually don't get the deal, plus it takes ages for them to even check through it, so the possibility of them not wanting to give it a chance, especially without anyone explaining or talking about the study, is pretty big. They simply don't have the time. I know she's doing this thing with one of our old professors that's on an another university. He's a rock. He's a genius. I'm sure he will support her and be by her side in whatever she decides to do. The other three researchers that are on the list are badass. Media loves them because they are pretty controversial, especially about immigration and inequality. That's why they are so hated by these groups, but they don't give a crap kinda. That sounds like a great idea, to tell her about all the possibilties and scenarios. It would be a shame if it would go unnoticed by media if they're not up to digging into it without a interview with her. I do understand the time issue though. Whatever your researcher decides to do, hopefully this will get publicity without her getting harassed. They win if they manage to scare people into silence. I'm glad she has the professor as support! If it ends up getting written about in media I'd love to read the stuff I will try to remember! How have you been? I've been meaning to write you and catch up a little, but you know me    |
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Post by buffy on Apr 16, 2018 11:15:07 GMT
I may want a sleeve, but my bf won't let me.
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Post by valerio23 on Apr 16, 2018 12:14:10 GMT
I may want a sleeve, but my bf won't let me. Why he won't let you?  |
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Post by buffy on Apr 16, 2018 15:36:38 GMT
I may want a sleeve, but my bf won't let me. Why he won't let you? He doesn't like it that I get too many tattoos .... |
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Post by drnick on Apr 16, 2018 16:02:59 GMT
Why he won't let you? He doesn't like it that I get too many tattoos ....  |
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Post by purple18 on Apr 16, 2018 16:22:04 GMT
Why he won't let you? He doesn't like it that I get too many tattoos .... i think you would look great with one and your tattoos are cool. I don't think this would be a dealbreaker for him though so just go for it if that's what you really want |
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Post by buffy on Apr 16, 2018 16:37:36 GMT
He doesn't like it that I get too many tattoos .... Can you explain, cause all he says when I ask 'why not' he answers 'because' ...? |
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Post by buffy on Apr 16, 2018 16:42:52 GMT
He doesn't like it that I get too many tattoos .... i think you would look great with one and your tattoos are cool. I don't think this would be a dealbreaker for him though so just go for it if that's what you really want I'm gonna have some deep thoughts about it. Maybe it'll pass. I can't get an appointment in the next half year anyways. But there's some stuff I definitely want to get tattooed. |
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Post by drnick on Apr 16, 2018 16:44:05 GMT
I can understand him. Can you explain, cause all he says when I ask 'why not' he answers 'because' ...? Well, I can't explain his opinion, 'cause I don't know it, but imo all tattoos do is detroying beauty, and tattoo sleeves destroy a large area of beautiful perfection at once and just look awful. Always breaks my heart to see women doing that to themselves.  But that's me, I'm fucking boring.  |
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Post by Dani on Apr 16, 2018 16:45:31 GMT
Can you explain, cause all he says when I ask 'why not' he answers 'because' ...? I'm fucking boring. That’s the biggest bullshit I’ve read on here |
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Post by drnick on Apr 16, 2018 16:50:48 GMT
I'm fucking boring. That’s the biggest bullshit I’ve read on here  Thanks Dani. |
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You know how to push buttons, huh? Wanna end up in court, too? 
What a fucking idiot! 
But that's me, I'm fucking boring. 
Thanks Dani.