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Post by likedani on Jun 3, 2023 21:55:33 GMT
Hi,
I just wanted to ask if anyone feels sad from deep within. Because I do and I dont know why. So I just wanted to tell it to someone. Maybe sombody wants to share too.
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Post by heehawes on Jun 4, 2023 3:30:29 GMT
Hi, I just wanted to ask if anyone feels sad from deep within. Because I do and I dont know why. So I just wanted to tell it to someone. Maybe sombody wants to share too. I do from time to time… And I need to be ok with that. I sometimes go in weird cycles where I feel sad, and then feel guilty for feeling sad. Like I’ll beat myself up for having emotions. Sorry you’re feeling that way at the moment, and I hope it doesn’t last too long. ❤️ |
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Post by mrpink on Jun 18, 2023 11:22:37 GMT
Every damn day. I suffer from major depressive disorder (among others), so even if I’m happy for a minute, it turn to sadness quickly. I could be in bliss on a dance floor for 20 seconds, and then, bam.
I try to tell myself - “this storm too shall pass” because they always do.
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Post by kimpie on Jun 21, 2023 17:01:24 GMT
Hi, I just wanted to ask if anyone feels sad from deep within. Because I do and I dont know why. So I just wanted to tell it to someone. Maybe sombody wants to share too. Do you know the reasons why you feel that way. I felt sad last year...was home for a long time and needed to recover. I've learned from that time and search for me-time when it kicks in. Just know you're not alone and it's ok to be not ok as long as you can talk about it. |
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Post by likedani on Jul 8, 2023 19:56:50 GMT
I dont know why. At least not really. It just comes up out of nowhere and I hate everything about my life. Then Im just so disappointed and I feel ashamed.
Im sorry for everyone who feels the same way. Trying to fight through it is really hard especially if you have no one who can relate or at least understand. They think my life is perfect.
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Post by Dani on Jul 11, 2023 20:57:44 GMT
Not been sad for long time, but I’ve been disappointed in some people.
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Post by heehawes on Jul 14, 2023 1:16:57 GMT
One of them days today.
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Post by Nicotine.Head on Jul 14, 2023 7:46:45 GMT
Yes. And SSRIs (+ therapy) have been lifesavers.
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Post by likedani on Oct 26, 2023 15:05:04 GMT
hell yeah here we go again. could be the most happiest person but im not.
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Post by Dani on Oct 26, 2023 18:18:00 GMT
Uhmm I’m not sad but I’m doubting myself A LOT! Motherhood has done a lot to me! I’m scared to death of doing something that will make our kids get as disturbed as I’ve got by my parents. Honestly I’m considering therapy because of this. Just to have someone confirming me that I’m doing just fine and shit won’t repeat itself on to the next generation lol
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Post by Dani on Oct 26, 2023 18:18:55 GMT
hell yeah here we go again. could be the most happiest person but im not. ❤️ |
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Post by likedani on Oct 26, 2023 23:47:49 GMT
Uhmm I’m not sad but I’m doubting myself A LOT! Motherhood has done a lot to me! I’m scared to death of doing something that will make our kids get as disturbed as I’ve got by my parents. Honestly I’m considering therapy because of this. Just to have someone confirming me that I’m doing just fine and shit won’t repeat itself on to the next generation lol kinda same but different. im so scared that my baby wont have the same great parents as i had. i try everything but im afraid i cant do nothing but deciding what is going to be less damaging. |
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Post by Dani on Oct 27, 2023 7:26:35 GMT
Uhmm I’m not sad but I’m doubting myself A LOT! Motherhood has done a lot to me! I’m scared to death of doing something that will make our kids get as disturbed as I’ve got by my parents. Honestly I’m considering therapy because of this. Just to have someone confirming me that I’m doing just fine and shit won’t repeat itself on to the next generation lol kinda same but different. im so scared that my baby wont have the same great parents as i had. i try everything but im afraid i cant do nothing but deciding what is going to be less damaging. 🩷 I talk to my spouse about this SO often. He’s so clever and always calms my brains down. He said the most important thing we can do is show them how much we love them and each other, and how well we treat each other, and if we are upset with them / eachother that they/we sort it out and if needed apologize. That’s what he thinks will help them the most/best. I’m on the other hand thinking they get traumatized as soon as they are upset or screaming and there’s a lot of emotions involved (which is every time with our 2,5 year old 😂)… Anyway it’s hard and I somehow always think it’s healthy to think and doubt/question/criticize yourself…🥹I’m grown up to do that daily lol. Anyway, good luck with everything your going through❤️ hope you can somehow find peace in it! |
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Post by likedani on Oct 27, 2023 13:18:16 GMT
kinda same but different. im so scared that my baby wont have the same great parents as i had. i try everything but im afraid i cant do nothing but deciding what is going to be less damaging. 🩷 I talk to my spouse about this SO often. He’s so clever and always calms my brains down. He said the most important thing we can do is show them how much we love them and each other, and how well we treat each other, and if we are upset with them / eachother that they/we sort it out and if needed apologize. That’s what he thinks will help them the most/best. I’m on the other hand thinking they get traumatized as soon as they are upset or screaming and there’s a lot of emotions involved (which is every time with our 2,5 year old 😂)… Anyway it’s hard and I somehow always think it’s healthy to think and doubt/question/criticize yourself…🥹I’m grown up to do that daily lol. Anyway, good luck with everything your going through❤️ hope you can somehow find peace in it! Funny off topic. My ex also always calmed my thoughts down until i found out the truth about and now i stuck in suffering. Kinda triggered my.  Anyways I think some brains overreacts when you have a history so we tend to exaggerate normal things. Therfore its useful to take a twinkle break while this is happening and see it pragmatic. But often its easier said than done. I hope you learn to deal with it better with every moment its happening until its gone. |
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Post by Dani on Nov 2, 2023 19:37:49 GMT
🩷 I talk to my spouse about this SO often. He’s so clever and always calms my brains down. He said the most important thing we can do is show them how much we love them and each other, and how well we treat each other, and if we are upset with them / eachother that they/we sort it out and if needed apologize. That’s what he thinks will help them the most/best. I’m on the other hand thinking they get traumatized as soon as they are upset or screaming and there’s a lot of emotions involved (which is every time with our 2,5 year old 😂)… Anyway it’s hard and I somehow always think it’s healthy to think and doubt/question/criticize yourself…🥹I’m grown up to do that daily lol. Anyway, good luck with everything your going through❤️ hope you can somehow find peace in it! Funny off topic. My ex also always calmed my thoughts down until i found out the truth about and now i stuck in suffering. Kinda triggered my. Anyways I think some brains overreacts when you have a history so we tend to exaggerate normal things. Therfore it’s useful to take a twinkle break while this is happening and see it pragmatic. But often it’s easier said than done. I hope you learn to deal with it better with every moment it’s happening until it’s gone. Thank you! I’m learning and trying and also going fking crazy some days 😂 I’m starting to think it’s our personalities that need to find ways to work eh 😂 Good luck to you too! Try to be nice to yourself🩷 As long as you do your best, it’s all that matters. |
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