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Post by buffy on Apr 25, 2018 10:42:46 GMT
I'm not very social when around people I don't know or know very well I'm not good with words or expressing myself I can be pretty sarcastic When in a group of people I don't talk a lot Being alone in public makes me nervous I love the quiet I'm very very tickly I'm a very emotional person, at all levels Sven and I have a unique relationship, it's one of a kind which few would survive At point 1, 2, 4, 5, 6 and 9, we are same. High five! Anyway, seriously, if you're a shy person it's normal to be kinda scared of new people or people you don't know. We just need a little bit more time than the other persons who are more social and less shy. Oh, and I think that be emotional persons is not a bad thing at all. We just feel and see the world through our eyes but first of all with our heart ❤ I guess I'm more of an animal person than a people person. I do wish I was less emotional. And I really need to work on the last pointed I added in my edit ...
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valerio23
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Post by valerio23 on Apr 25, 2018 15:32:08 GMT
At point 1, 2, 4, 5, 6 and 9, we are same. High five! Anyway, seriously, if you're a shy person it's normal to be kinda scared of new people or people you don't know. We just need a little bit more time than the other persons who are more social and less shy. Oh, and I think that be emotional persons is not a bad thing at all. We just feel and see the world through our eyes but first of all with our heart ❤ I guess I'm more of an animal person than a people person. I do wish I was less emotional. And I really need to work on the last pointed I added in my edit ... The animals are best then some people that have no emotion at all. You know, be emotional is beautiful and, at the same time, bad. Is bad, 'cause there's a lot of people that take advantage of our sensitivity and hurt us and day by day we risk to lose our feelings and be unemotional, so, that's bad too. About the last point, I wish you all the best 
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Post by Dani on Apr 25, 2018 15:49:30 GMT
I should count to 10 before saying something or overthink things first I know the secret to this. Don't even get involved or continue talking if you feel things are moving to where you'll be brutally honest, lol. Sometimes I think brutal honesty is needed but sometimes it just could remain in your head, lol.
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Post by drnick on Apr 25, 2018 16:24:10 GMT
I should count to 10 before saying something or overthink things first I know the secret to this. Don't even get involved or continue talking if you feel things are moving to where you'll be brutally honest, lol. Sometimes I think brutal honesty is needed but sometimes it just could remain in your head, lol. Works perfectly when you're clubbing.
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Post by Dani on Apr 25, 2018 16:41:08 GMT
I know the secret to this. Don't even get involved or continue talking if you feel things are moving to where you'll be brutally honest, lol. Sometimes I think brutal honesty is needed but sometimes it just could remain in your head, lol. Works perfectly when you're clubbing. Haha, them bitches could need it
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Post by buffy on Apr 25, 2018 16:45:45 GMT
I should count to 10 before saying something or overthink things first I know the secret to this. Don't even get involved or continue talking if you feel things are moving to where you'll be brutally honest, lol. Sometimes I think brutal honesty is needed but sometimes it just could remain in your head, lol. True that !! It's hard though ... Combined with sarcasm ...
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Post by Dani on Apr 25, 2018 16:48:50 GMT
I know the secret to this. Don't even get involved or continue talking if you feel things are moving to where you'll be brutally honest, lol. Sometimes I think brutal honesty is needed but sometimes it just could remain in your head, lol. True that !! It's hard though ... Combined with sarcasm ... What do you mean? Do you feel like you're not being taken seriously because you tend to joke a lot? Or that you are being misunderstood because you mean things as a joke and people don't get it? I'm confused haha.
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Post by buffy on Apr 25, 2018 17:02:18 GMT
True that !! It's hard though ... Combined with sarcasm ... What do you mean? Do you feel like you're not being taken seriously because you tend to joke a lot? Or that you are being misunderstood because you mean things as a joke and people don't get it? I'm confused haha. The last one.
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Post by Dani on Apr 25, 2018 17:17:13 GMT
What do you mean? Do you feel like you're not being taken seriously because you tend to joke a lot? Or that you are being misunderstood because you mean things as a joke and people don't get it? I'm confused haha. The last one. Yeah. I'm a bit clumsy with that too, but I'm working on it. I try to be boring and serious with people that don't joke the same or that I don't know me too well. It's the safest, haha. The worst thing is having to say that "Ok, that was a joke". And uhmm uhhh I'd rather let people think I'm evil or whatever  I know I'd never backstab or hurt a fly so fuck what they think basically
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Post by buffy on Apr 25, 2018 17:29:00 GMT
Yeah. I'm a bit clumsy with that too, but I'm working on it. I try to be boring and serious with people that don't joke the same or that I don't know me too well. It's the safest, haha. The worst thing is having to say that "Ok, that was a joke". And uhmm uhhh I'd rather let people think I'm evil or whatever  I know I'd never backstab or hurt a fly so fuck what they think basically I'm glad I'm not the only one. Or maybe others need to grow a sense of humour. 🤔
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Post by Dani on Apr 25, 2018 17:44:38 GMT
Yeah. I'm a bit clumsy with that too, but I'm working on it. I try to be boring and serious with people that don't joke the same or that I don't know me too well. It's the safest, haha. The worst thing is having to say that "Ok, that was a joke". And uhmm uhhh I'd rather let people think I'm evil or whatever  I know I'd never backstab or hurt a fly so fuck what they think basically I'm glad I'm not the only one. Or maybe others need to grow a sense of humour. 🤔 I think we're good as we are and they are good as they are and we're all different. But I agree, some people take things way too personal. But that's just my opinion.
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Post by Dani on Apr 25, 2018 17:50:04 GMT
Now I feel like I'm spamming AGAIN. So here's ten more about me.
I go into this super star chef mode whenever I cook. It's like I think I'm super good at what I do. That makes the whole thing more fun for me and the food yummier actually. Don't judge, try it. I'm very sensitive to other people's moods. I'm working on it daily, to not be affected by moody people, but it's hard. Like I can be super up and happy and if someone's like pissed at someone as fuck, I just literally DIE. I guess that's what they call "mood killers". I'm super deep/vulnerable. Like I can literally feel my heartbeat in my words when I truly open up to someone. But that rarely ever happens. I feel amazing when I get to organise things, or write lists and check them off, or plan stuff or research. It's gives me major kicks of happiness and satisfaction. My memory sucks and I told my mom I'm worried that I have early stage alzheimers. In some situations I can get really really shy. Who would've thought ha! I only have plastic flowers at home. I love flowers but I can't take care of 4-5 flowers. I need 300 and then I'll probably not forget about them. Before Pink came into my life I was a big fan of Missy Elliot, J.Lo and Aaliyah. I was super good at maths and studied the highest maths class levels. But I suck at it today and I hate it. I think I managed it because I believe that we can manage anything if we just change our mindset and give it an honest try. I enjoy solving problems.
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Post by drnick on Apr 25, 2018 17:50:31 GMT
Yeah. I'm a bit clumsy with that too, but I'm working on it. I try to be boring and serious with people that don't joke the same or that I don't know me too well. It's the safest, haha. The worst thing is having to say that "Ok, that was a joke". And uhmm uhhh I'd rather let people think I'm evil or whatever  I know I'd never backstab or hurt a fly so fuck what they think basically I'm glad I'm not the only one. Or maybe others need to grow a sense of humour. 🤔 Yeah, really sad how few people nowadays actually get sarcasm.
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Post by buffy on Apr 25, 2018 17:55:12 GMT
I'm glad I'm not the only one. Or maybe others need to grow a sense of humour. 🤔 I think we're good as we are and they are good as they are and we're all different. But I agree, some people take things way too personal. But that's just my opinion. Thank you !!
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Post by buffy on Apr 25, 2018 17:55:42 GMT
I'm glad I'm not the only one. Or maybe others need to grow a sense of humour. 🤔 Yeah, really sad how few people nowadays actually get sarcasm. *high five*
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