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Post by drnick on Mar 25, 2018 10:41:12 GMT
Well, so nothing new. But what did you expect from the dumbass who a) claimed he wouldn't have time for golf 'cause there would be so much work to do, and b) has accepted dozens of millions of NRA blood money? Hopefully this shitshow ends this year. I don’t know what I have expected. I’ve tried to stay away from everything that has to do with this lunatic. Me, too. Unfortunately the bullshit that dumbass says and does all the time not only effects the US but the entire planet.  |
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Post by Dani on Mar 25, 2018 10:58:59 GMT
I don’t know what I have expected. I’ve tried to stay away from everything that has to do with this lunatic. Me, too. Unfortunately the bullshit that dumbass says and does all the time not only effects the US but the entire planet. Accurate. |
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Post by Krazy4pink on Mar 25, 2018 12:09:15 GMT
Just to give you some perspective on how it is over here I visited texas a few months ago and everyone i knew there had several guns, including semi-automatic riffles. They brought them out in suitcases. It was quite shocking to me at first but these people were average everyday down to earth liberals. They weren't the redneck gun slinging trump supporters i'm sure you associate guns with. In high school, people brought their guns to parties. You can walk into a walmart and buy a gun. It's very pervasive and I don't think liking guns makes you a bad person. but they definitely need to be more regulated and there needs to be restrictions on what types of gun you can buy. I want a handgun for myself one day. When it's me, my wife, and my children living alone I won't have a man in the house to protect us if some horrible human enters our home. I'm really no match to a full grown man even with a baseball bat. I'd need a gun.  Yes of course there are problems with perspective with me as you said, we are not used to having guns literally in supermarkets. And to be honest with you, i don't know what i would do if i had to live there and think that a person WITH A GUN could attack me?! I am just sure of one thing and that is that i am completely unable to handle a gun let alone take a life with it. The thought terrifies me. I read an article the other day about some cases of people ".accidentally" shooting people they thought were intruders but turned out to be their roommates, teenage daughter's boyfriends or their own child etc. A gun is serious shit and it is not something i could ever think of as normal or everyday stuff. Accidentally killing an innocent person, especially somebody you know, is a horrifying thought. |
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Post by Dani on Mar 25, 2018 13:23:01 GMT
Cramping stomach side muscles. I guess it’s because I haven’t made them suffer like this in a long time. But it hurts like a motherfucker.
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Post by drnick on Mar 25, 2018 13:23:51 GMT
Cramping stomach side muscles. I guess it’s because I haven’t made them suffer like this in a long time. But it hurts like a motherfucker. Killed it in the gym again? |
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Post by Dani on Mar 25, 2018 13:33:12 GMT
Cramping stomach side muscles. I guess it’s because I haven’t made them suffer like this in a long time. But it hurts like a motherfucker. Killed it in the gym again? Nah. This was on the balcony in the sun, no wind. Super nice. Was out for a walk before that. This weather is amazing, makes me super happy and very energetic, haha 😃 |
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Post by Dani on Mar 25, 2018 15:16:23 GMT
My (first) ex sending me a pic of the adidas shoes I raged about the other week. As if he’d knew how much I wanted them. Dickhead.
But I’m happy for him. Of course. Always.
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Post by Dani on Mar 25, 2018 16:23:22 GMT
I made this thread my bitch today. I’m annoyed st the fact that all my shorts from last year are size 34 and my ass has grown at least three times as big so this is gonna be an expensive summer.  |
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Post by roodle87 on Mar 25, 2018 18:48:50 GMT
People littering - it makes me really mad. And people spitting. I witnessed both today on my first walk in sunny weather here in the UK! Gaaaahhh!!
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Post by Fuckingperfect on Mar 25, 2018 19:24:02 GMT
Have they talked to you about acceptance? I never went to a therapist or similar but realized at an early age that it's the only thing that makes it possible for me to help myself. Accepting the way things are or have been and trying only to see the positive in whatever happened even if there's barely anything positive at all. I can't explain it, it's just a mindset I guess. But like, trying to feel comfortable in whatever you are running from. Face it, feel it and learn to live with it without having it bothering you and taking over your life, i.e shifting focus onto something that makes you happy. And to know that everyone has their struggles and issues and battles is also something to remember. I think you need to give therapy time but if you don't feel it's getting better I'd go see someone else. I'll get back to you later sweetie. ❤️ I am so incredibly tired atm, and so fed up with life. I'll be off to bed now, and I'll reply tomorrow. ❤️ x Sorry for the late reply  Me and my therapist have worked on acceptance for the past year or so, it took me about 2,5 years until I was ready to start talking about the traumatic experience, however, I find it incredibly hard to accept the past, and move on. Maybe it has something to do with the fact that I am still reminded by it (every day, more or less), and sometimes random objects related to the incident, triggers a huge storm of extremely uncomfortable memories and emotions I can't seem to deal with in a healthy way (yet). I try my best to find, and do things to distract myself when that happens, sometimes it helps, but sadly and more often do I fail to shift focus because it is too overwhelming. My current therapist has stuck with me ever since I "came down" again, she never saw me ill, but I've learned it takes a whole lot of patience, and I am surprised she kept her patience with me for so long. I was actually thinking of switching therapist a few years ago (mainly because I felt like she didn't understand me), but I had to go within myself, and that's when I realised she's not capable of reading minds, and I decided to start talking... and ever since that day have I made major progression in regards of being open, and allowing myself to show myself vulnerable in her office. I know I am definitely not alone having experienced difficulties in life, and it does help to remind myself of that from time to time, but like I said, I really wish I could accept and move on. Maybe there's something wrong with me, idk. :/ _____________________ I'm annoyed by the weather here atm. Snowing sideways. -.- |
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Post by Dani on Mar 25, 2018 19:35:37 GMT
I'll get back to you later sweetie. ❤️ I am so incredibly tired atm, and so fed up with life. I'll be off to bed now, and I'll reply tomorrow. ❤️ x Sorry for the late reply Me and my therapist have worked on acceptance for the past year or so, it took me about 2,5 years until I was ready to start talking about the traumatic experience, however, I find it incredibly hard to accept the past, and move on. Maybe it has something to do with the fact that I am still reminded by it (every day, more or less), and sometimes random objects related to the incident, triggers a huge storm of extremely uncomfortable memories and emotions I can't seem to deal with in a healthy way (yet). I try my best to find, and do things to distract myself when that happens, sometimes it helps, but sadly and more often do I fail to shift focus because it is too overwhelming. My current therapist has stuck with me ever since I "came down" again, she never saw me ill, but I've learned it takes a whole lot of patience, and I am surprised she kept her patience with me for so long. I was actually thinking of switching therapist a few years ago (mainly because I felt like she didn't understand me), but I had to go within myself, and that's when I realised she's not capable of reading minds, and I decided to start talking... and ever since that day have I made major progression in regards of being open, and allowing myself to show myself vulnerable in her office. I know I am definitely not alone having experienced difficulties in life, and it does help to remind myself of that from time to time, but like I said, I really wish I could accept and move on. Maybe there's something wrong with me, idk. :/ _____________________ I'm annoyed by the weather here atm. Snowing sideways. -.- You reply when you have time. I'm not going anywhere  Nothing's wrong with you, Maren. You just need to give it more time. Healing takes time and it's different for all of us. But it sounds like you've made progress. I don't know what else to say but keep going and believe in yourself that you can do it. |
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Post by Fuckingperfect on Mar 25, 2018 19:46:32 GMT
You reply when you have time. I'm not going anywhere Nothing's wrong with you, Maren. You just need to give it more time. Healing takes time and it's different for all of us. But it sounds like you've made progress. I don't know what else to say but keep going and believe in yourself that you can do it. Thank you <3 I know I will. I'm stubborn like that. |
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Post by Fuckingperfect on Mar 26, 2018 4:51:47 GMT
Dammit, the buses are operating with Saturday (limited) departures today already, which means I'll be late. Ffs!! 😡😡😡
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Post by Sole on Mar 26, 2018 16:10:02 GMT
I'm going to Germany and Austria for a week to play some gigs and it seems like it's gonna snow like...always. Damn I hate driving when it snows |
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Post by Dani on Mar 27, 2018 17:44:05 GMT
Went to the gym again. Realized I'm so fucking weak. I hate it.
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