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Post by alrightsir on Jun 23, 2018 19:27:44 GMT
Easy question. If you do, what do you get nostalgic about? If don't, why?
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Post by heehawes on Jun 23, 2018 20:31:19 GMT
Easy question. If you do, what do you get nostalgic about? If don't, why? Nope. I’ve thought about some from time to time. And had dreams before w/ them in it. But that’s about it. Any relationship that has ended, I’ve been happy about it being over. Or like - maybe not happy - but known that it wasn’t supposed to be.
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Post by Dani on Jun 23, 2018 21:11:46 GMT
Nah. A couple of songs can remind me of certain moments, but that’s about it. I’m not that nostalgic in general.
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Post by qcpatdive on Jun 24, 2018 12:33:32 GMT
I'm nostalgic about only one ex. So many things remind me of him. A song, a particular event, an odor, a word... Our story lasted less than 2 years, but ended tragically. He committed suicide shortly after our breakup. 😢 He was 21, I was 18. I still remember the phone call from the police...
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Post by alrightsir on Jun 25, 2018 5:28:19 GMT
I'm nostalgic about only one ex. So many things remind me of him. A song, a particular event, an odor, a word... Our story lasted less than 2 years, but ended tragically. He committed suicide shortly after our breakup. 😢 He was 21, I was 18. I still remember the phone call from the police... Oh my god. What happened?
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Post by purple18 on Jun 28, 2018 14:31:14 GMT
hmm i dunno. i have only had 2 relationships before my husband and while the first one ended after 7 years, and we struggled a lot to let each other go, right now we are on amazing terms and even talk a few times a year on the phone, sometimes we meet up at friends' events and now it is all good. i do not have nostalgic feelings towards that relationship anymore, it was completely different and we were kids and for me nostalgia is about longing for something in a way and i do not feel that. my next relationship was in all honesty more bad than good and it ended badly so there isn't anything i miss about it.
but i think it is normal if someone feels nostalgic about certain things in a previous relationship, you can miss things but that doesn't mean you miss the relationship itself imo or that you are lacking anything in your current one.
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Post by alrightsir on Jun 29, 2018 16:26:18 GMT
I agree although you don't necessary have to miss something if you're nostalgic. I have a couple of moments, nights and things I get nostalgic about and I get very warm thinking about them. I wouldn't go back but those times will always be special for me.
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Post by Danielle on Jun 29, 2018 19:43:29 GMT
I don’t have an ex, I’ve only ever been with my husband. 🙈
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Post by Dani on Jun 30, 2018 10:34:00 GMT
I agree although you don't necessary have to miss something if you're nostalgic. I have a couple of moments, nights and things I get nostalgic about and I get very warm thinking about them. I wouldn't go back but those times will always be special for me. Then enjoy them 😊💕 It’s fine. They are your memories and special moments and no one can take that away from you!
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Post by Fuckingperfect on Jul 6, 2018 19:37:29 GMT
Ex what? 🤷♀️
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Post by meandmyhand on Jul 10, 2018 22:59:26 GMT
I've never had a bf so I wouldn't know lol. But a friend of mine had a bf for 7 years and he said that breaking up with him felt like someone died, which I can understand if the outcome of the relationship is "we will never speak again". I find that harsh. If I had an ex, I would still want to have keep in touch with him.
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Post by kenninek on Jul 11, 2018 5:53:30 GMT
I don’t have an ex, I’ve only ever been with my husband. 🙈 you´re one in the million! that´s great!
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