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Post by heehawes on Aug 17, 2018 9:07:06 GMT
You can do anything you put your mind to. I know parents say that all the time to their kids, but it’s true. Pick something and roll with it (if you like) - you can do it and get through it and then pick something else. Accomplish a million things if you like. Become a firefighter, then a doctor, write a book, become an artist, paint, sing, travel. Move to he other side of the planet. I dunno, could be fun. You don’t have to know where the end of your life will end up but you can pick things at the moment. I feel pretty stagnant at times. I think the best thing that could happen for me is if my boss sold the business, if shit shut down. I’m comfortable now, and things are easy, but not super rewarding. I think if things got turned upside I’d be forced to make changes. Whatever you decide you will be amazing. Or just enjoy the moment right now. You can enjoy your bed. Blah blah blah blah blah. I think we all feel this at time. But life is short. 😬 do whatever makes you happy.  You are absolutely right and I don’t doubt myself at all cause I’ve proved that to myself long ago. It’s not really about that. Or planning life 50 years ahead. It’s more about getting a call from the inside, if that makes sense. I’ve always had that. Except for now. I guess I’m meant to enjoy this moment in life without it. It will come whenever it needs. I’m happy I have a new job. Maybe it’ll give me inspiration for further growth/direction. But no, I can’t just go for something, I have to feel it. I have no idea. It’s creepy only because I’m not used to it I guess. Haha. It’ll be okay in the end, and if not it’s not the end. Or what is the saying? You only get one shot, do not miss your chance to blow This opportunity comes once in a lifetime, yo. 😬 I know what you’re saying though. And you will get that call from inside soon enough.... or when it needs to come. It will come at the right time. And you will be amazing. |
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Post by Dani on Aug 17, 2018 9:07:57 GMT
You are absolutely right and I don’t doubt myself at all cause I’ve proved that to myself long ago. It’s not really about that. Or planning life 50 years ahead. It’s more about getting a call from the inside, if that makes sense. I’ve always had that. Except for now. I guess I’m meant to enjoy this moment in life without it. It will come whenever it needs. I’m happy I have a new job. Maybe it’ll give me inspiration for further growth/direction. But no, I can’t just go for something, I have to feel it. I have no idea. It’s creepy only because I’m not used to it I guess. Haha. It’ll be okay in the end, and if not it’s not the end. Or what is the saying? You only get one shot, do not miss your chance to blow This opportunity comes once in a lifetime, yo. 😬 I know what you’re saying though. And you will get that call from inside soon enough.... or when it needs to come. It will come at the right time. And you will be amazing. ❤️ |
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Post by Dani on Aug 17, 2018 9:13:25 GMT
OMG maybe it’s my 30 year crisis? I’ve heard of them. 20, 30, 40, 50. I never had it before. How are they? Maybe I should google  Edit; TOTALLY 😬 Ok best thing to do is to wait it all out and not do any changes just for the sake of change. Look at this; “The physical shifts were expected but the mental ones took me by surprise. My mind seemed to explode with doubt as I exhausted myself with ceaseless questions. Some were practical – do I still enjoy London? Am I in the right job? Others were more existential. Where am I going? Is the world safe? Am I happy? What the f**k am I doing? Almost six months to the day after my 30th, I left my job to go freelance. The plan was simple – achieve professional greatness and be happy forever. There’s no more time for mistakes. It will shock you to hear that three months on, I was burned out. I was having a midi-life crisis. (Not to be confused with the mid-life crisis, which, thankfully, I’m still at least 15 years too young for.)“ |
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Post by Dani on Aug 17, 2018 10:06:49 GMT
Seriously, I can't believe this. But it is a crisis I'm going through haha. I feel weird laughing about it but whatever I keep reading I can relate to it. So weird. Anyway. Has any of you gone through it? How long does it last? Also, I read some of the changes people done during this have been good, so maybe ... I should quit my job, move to Seattle and work in a bar, like I joked about the other month, Jeffrey   |
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Post by heehawes on Aug 17, 2018 10:09:45 GMT
Seriously, I can't believe this. But it is a crisis I'm going through haha. I feel weird laughing about it but whatever I keep reading I can relate to it. So weird. Anyway. Has any of you gone through it? How long does it last? Also, I read some of the changes people done during this have been good, so maybe ... I should quit my job, move to Seattle and work in a bar, like I joked about the other month, Jeffrey Come hereeeeeee.... 😬 |
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Post by Dani on Aug 17, 2018 10:16:09 GMT
Seriously, I can't believe this. But it is a crisis I'm going through haha. I feel weird laughing about it but whatever I keep reading I can relate to it. So weird. Anyway. Has any of you gone through it? How long does it last? Also, I read some of the changes people done during this have been good, so maybe ... I should quit my job, move to Seattle and work in a bar, like I joked about the other month, Jeffrey Come hereeeeeee.... 😬 Haha, I'm kinda happy I didn't just go for whatever new job because I felt like I was done and I needed a challenge/change. I'm kinda glad I stayed at the uni until I figure out what I want. But yeah, I'm not impossible. Seattle isn't impossible One day maybe |
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Post by drnick on Aug 17, 2018 10:17:29 GMT
Seriously, I can't believe this. But it is a crisis I'm going through haha. I feel weird laughing about it but whatever I keep reading I can relate to it. So weird. Anyway. Has any of you gone through it? How long does it last? Also, I read some of the changes people done during this have been good, so maybe ... I should quit my job, move to Seattle and work in a bar, like I joked about the other month, Jeffrey  |
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Post by Dani on Aug 17, 2018 10:20:42 GMT
Seriously, I can't believe this. But it is a crisis I'm going through haha. I feel weird laughing about it but whatever I keep reading I can relate to it. So weird. Anyway. Has any of you gone through it? How long does it last? Also, I read some of the changes people done during this have been good, so maybe ... I should quit my job, move to Seattle and work in a bar, like I joked about the other month, Jeffrey Jeffrey is going to murder you |
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Post by drnick on Aug 17, 2018 10:29:21 GMT
Jeffrey is going to murder you Na, he's a nice guy, with a good sense of humor. |
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Post by heehawes on Aug 17, 2018 11:04:47 GMT
Jeffrey is going to murder you  |
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Post by drnick on Aug 17, 2018 11:10:32 GMT
Jeffrey is going to murder you   |
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Post by Dani on Aug 20, 2018 20:53:25 GMT
I think I might be up all night watching this show 😬🤷🏽♀️ I didn’t even answer when my best friend called 😬🤷🏽♀️ I mean she’s called five times today already so..... it’s not like I didn’t give her time to vent today 😬🤷🏽♀️
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Post by heehawes on Aug 20, 2018 22:52:20 GMT
I think I might be up all night watching this show 😬🤷🏽♀️ I didn’t even answer when my best friend called 😬🤷🏽♀️ I mean she’s called five times today already so..... it’s not like I didn’t give her time to vent today 😬🤷🏽♀️ You’re killing it with the emoji combos today. And those are like my two fav most used |
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Post by heehawes on Aug 20, 2018 23:18:40 GMT
😰💕
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Post by Dani on Aug 21, 2018 7:59:13 GMT
Hahahahaha that was for Pink. |
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