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Post by purple18 on Mar 12, 2018 9:40:48 GMT
since i stopped taking contraception, my PMS has been worse and worse every month. i feel so bad, i behave like a little bitch to everyone. i wouldn't be surprised if my husband wanted to leave me instead of have babies with me but he's calm as a rock. this morning he asked me to try to explain what i feel. when i said "it's like everything feels 100x more intense than normally" he was like "so if i give you a kiss you feel it a 100x more as well?" lol. gotta love his positivity. Aww, he's such a cutie! Be happy he doesn't react on your rages  But this is exactly what I felt happened to me too! Remember I told ya I stopped taking the stuff and felt like things got 100 times worse? Or maybe it's something that just comes with age? I hope you'll find a way to handle this PMS. What I do when I feel it coming is that I try distance myself a bit from everyone. Like not to be too close and too "emotional/open/deep" like I usually am. Just scratching on the surface if you know what I mean. That's my way to prevent myself from blowing up in front of people. I can get so frigging annoyed even if someone calls me during this time. It's horrible. Also I can get a feeling that I'm the worst and most horrible person in the world as if I killed someone - but I know it's just temporary and passes, but it feels so real and I think that's when I usually cry without really knowing why, haha. It's fucked up. How often and how long do you have your PMS? yeah i remember we talked about it earlier and that yours is very bad too. i do think it is because of stopping the pills and the hormones kick in. i am the same, when my phone rings i get so enraged i need a few seconds to calm down  my way of dealing with it is having as much "alone time" as possible, kinda also distancing myself from people. and i apologize for my behavior all the time but sadly only after shouting at him for putting his mug in the sink instead of the washing machine lol. every little thing feels like a tragedy and i feel like i cannot cope with everything that's coming up. so yeah i can relate 100% to what you are saying. i just need a cave to be alone, a ton of chocolate and a few good books  mine lasts for about 4 days right before my period. during my period i am okay emotionally, then it is more challenging physically because even plucking my eyebrows hurts like a bitch and i get cramps but honestly in my case it is better than being the biggest bitch in the world. not easy being a woman, huh? hope you manage to find a way to cope with your PMS it is annoying when it interferes with your life. |
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Post by Danielle on Mar 12, 2018 10:08:27 GMT
Ate so many doughnuts yesterday. Must reign it in today.
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Post by Dani on Mar 12, 2018 10:47:00 GMT
Aww, he's such a cutie! Be happy he doesn't react on your rages But this is exactly what I felt happened to me too! Remember I told ya I stopped taking the stuff and felt like things got 100 times worse? Or maybe it's something that just comes with age? I hope you'll find a way to handle this PMS. What I do when I feel it coming is that I try distance myself a bit from everyone. Like not to be too close and too "emotional/open/deep" like I usually am. Just scratching on the surface if you know what I mean. That's my way to prevent myself from blowing up in front of people. I can get so frigging annoyed even if someone calls me during this time. It's horrible. Also I can get a feeling that I'm the worst and most horrible person in the world as if I killed someone - but I know it's just temporary and passes, but it feels so real and I think that's when I usually cry without really knowing why, haha. It's fucked up. How often and how long do you have your PMS? yeah i remember we talked about it earlier and that yours is very bad too. i do think it is because of stopping the pills and the hormones kick in. i am the same, when my phone rings i get so enraged i need a few seconds to calm down my way of dealing with it is having as much "alone time" as possible, kinda also distancing myself from people. and i apologize for my behavior all the time but sadly only after shouting at him for putting his mug in the sink instead of the washing machine lol. every little thing feels like a tragedy and i feel like i cannot cope with everything that's coming up. so yeah i can relate 100% to what you are saying. i just need a cave to be alone, a ton of chocolate and a few good books mine lasts for about 4 days right before my period. during my period i am okay emotionally, then it is more challenging physically because even plucking my eyebrows hurts like a bitch and i get cramps but honestly in my case it is better than being the biggest bitch in the world. not easy being a woman, huh? hope you manage to find a way to cope with your PMS it is annoying when it interferes with your life. Yeah, alone time is the best. Just loads and loads of movies and tv series keep me sane/forget about my feelings for a while, haha. And ice cream and some other random craving I get. I'm single now so it's easier but I can imagine it can be rough for you. Is he clingy? And needy? Or is he fine with leaving you alone? My first bf was sooooo needy and during this time and could literally take it as if I didn't love him anymore. Robin was okay with it but could push my buttons just because he liked seeing me get pissed at him and then he'd start kiss me in the middle of it and we'd end up having sex. Lmao. That relationship was so fucked up. That's good. I have mine about two weeks before my period and then a couple of days before it. I make notes in this app, it's really so good to see that it's the same pattern every month. We're not weird, we're just women. |
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Post by blackrosefore on Mar 12, 2018 13:31:50 GMT
I am also PMS-ing. Still on contraceptives. Without them I would lose and become severely anemic. It's still not grand, whether you have hormonal assist or not.
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Post by purple18 on Mar 12, 2018 14:31:40 GMT
yeah i remember we talked about it earlier and that yours is very bad too. i do think it is because of stopping the pills and the hormones kick in. i am the same, when my phone rings i get so enraged i need a few seconds to calm down my way of dealing with it is having as much "alone time" as possible, kinda also distancing myself from people. and i apologize for my behavior all the time but sadly only after shouting at him for putting his mug in the sink instead of the washing machine lol. every little thing feels like a tragedy and i feel like i cannot cope with everything that's coming up. so yeah i can relate 100% to what you are saying. i just need a cave to be alone, a ton of chocolate and a few good books mine lasts for about 4 days right before my period. during my period i am okay emotionally, then it is more challenging physically because even plucking my eyebrows hurts like a bitch and i get cramps but honestly in my case it is better than being the biggest bitch in the world. not easy being a woman, huh? hope you manage to find a way to cope with your PMS it is annoying when it interferes with your life. Yeah, alone time is the best. Just loads and loads of movies and tv series keep me sane/forget about my feelings for a while, haha. And ice cream and some other random craving I get. I'm single now so it's easier but I can imagine it can be rough for you. Is he clingy? And needy? Or is he fine with leaving you alone? My first bf was sooooo needy and during this time and could literally take it as if I didn't love him anymore. Robin was okay with it but could push my buttons just because he liked seeing me get pissed at him and then he'd start kiss me in the middle of it and we'd end up having sex. Lmao. That relationship was so fucked up. That's good. I have mine about two weeks before my period and then a couple of days before it. I make notes in this app, it's really so good to see that it's the same pattern every month. We're not weird, we're just women. yeahh all you feel like doing is just lying somewhere watching tv/reading and crying occasionally. it also feels good when someone feeds you hmm my man is pretty much calm and positive 95% of all time and if i ask him to leave me alone he just does and doesn't really take offense. we complement each other very well because he can handle my constant flow of emotions and anxiety and nervousness at any give occasion (and there are many occasions, i'm telling you ). he also has "alone time" sometimes when he wants to concentrate on work or something but when we are home together we usually hang out together. he's not needy but not fighting to be very independent either. i haven't really thought about this before haha my ex used my PMS or period time against me in fights to say that i am a bitch so "i must be on my period"  so judging by what you said men cannot really deal with this very well lol maybe they need to be taught. what kind of monster likes to piss of the person they love? that is new to me wow PMSing twice? that's bad. if you don't mind my asking, why did you stop taking the pills? going back on them might help you solve this problem (although of course there also other disadvatages to it which might not be worth it for you) |
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Post by Dani on Mar 12, 2018 16:29:43 GMT
Yeah, alone time is the best. Just loads and loads of movies and tv series keep me sane/forget about my feelings for a while, haha. And ice cream and some other random craving I get. I'm single now so it's easier but I can imagine it can be rough for you. Is he clingy? And needy? Or is he fine with leaving you alone? My first bf was sooooo needy and during this time and could literally take it as if I didn't love him anymore. Robin was okay with it but could push my buttons just because he liked seeing me get pissed at him and then he'd start kiss me in the middle of it and we'd end up having sex. Lmao. That relationship was so fucked up. That's good. I have mine about two weeks before my period and then a couple of days before it. I make notes in this app, it's really so good to see that it's the same pattern every month. We're not weird, we're just women. yeahh all you feel like doing is just lying somewhere watching tv/reading and crying occasionally. it also feels good when someone feeds you hmm my man is pretty much calm and positive 95% of all time and if i ask him to leave me alone he just does and doesn't really take offense. we complement each other very well because he can handle my constant flow of emotions and anxiety and nervousness at any give occasion (and there are many occasions, i'm telling you ). he also has "alone time" sometimes when he wants to concentrate on work or something but when we are home together we usually hang out together. he's not needy but not fighting to be very independent either. i haven't really thought about this before haha my ex used my PMS or period time against me in fights to say that i am a bitch so "i must be on my period" so judging by what you said men cannot really deal with this very well lol maybe they need to be taught. what kind of monster likes to piss of the person they love? that is new to me wow PMSing twice? that's bad. if you don't mind my asking, why did you stop taking the pills? going back on them might help you solve this problem (although of course there also other disadvatages to it which might not be worth it for you) "When someone feeds you", haha I love that. I remember texting Robin from the living room when his phone was in the kitchen so he got up to see who it was and I wrote bring me xxx. Haha. He was nice - like he didn't upset me for real, but more likely became a kid who just annoyed me. And I would normally maybe laugh about it if I wasn't PMS'ing so that. You seem to have a good one, don't let him go! I stopped taking them because I got this thing they promote here in Sweden a lot. You measure your temp every morning and put it in the app, and it gives you red and green days. Kinda like tracking it on your own but you don't really have to, it does it for you. It's good And I don't have to put in hormones in my body even if I had those pills that had the smallest amount of it because of my dad got thrombosis in his leg after a surgery so they didn't want me to continue with the "stronger" pills. What about you? I read kids somewhere in that FB group?! When are you guys planning if you don't mind me asking? |
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Post by purple18 on Mar 12, 2018 18:34:47 GMT
yeahh all you feel like doing is just lying somewhere watching tv/reading and crying occasionally. it also feels good when someone feeds you hmm my man is pretty much calm and positive 95% of all time and if i ask him to leave me alone he just does and doesn't really take offense. we complement each other very well because he can handle my constant flow of emotions and anxiety and nervousness at any give occasion (and there are many occasions, i'm telling you ). he also has "alone time" sometimes when he wants to concentrate on work or something but when we are home together we usually hang out together. he's not needy but not fighting to be very independent either. i haven't really thought about this before haha my ex used my PMS or period time against me in fights to say that i am a bitch so "i must be on my period" so judging by what you said men cannot really deal with this very well lol maybe they need to be taught. what kind of monster likes to piss of the person they love? that is new to me wow PMSing twice? that's bad. if you don't mind my asking, why did you stop taking the pills? going back on them might help you solve this problem (although of course there also other disadvatages to it which might not be worth it for you) "When someone feeds you", haha I love that. I remember texting Robin from the living room when his phone was in the kitchen so he got up to see who it was and I wrote bring me xxx. Haha. He was nice - like he didn't upset me for real, but more likely became a kid who just annoyed me. And I would normally maybe laugh about it if I wasn't PMS'ing so that. You seem to have a good one, don't let him go! I stopped taking them because I got this thing they promote here in Sweden a lot. You measure your temp every morning and put it in the app, and it gives you red and green days. Kinda like tracking it on your own but you don't really have to, it does it for you. It's good And I don't have to put in hormones in my body even if I had those pills that had the smallest amount of it because of my dad got thrombosis in his leg after a surgery so they didn't want me to continue with the "stronger" pills. What about you? I read kids somewhere in that FB group?! When are you guys planning if you don't mind me asking? hahaha that is very savvy. might use it too! yeah he's really the best. i cannot ever piss him off enough to make him love me less or hold any kind of shit against me. but i guess that should be normal?! lol haha i do the same thing, i use an app to track my ovulation based on my temperature just probably my green days are your red days since mine is to track good days to get pregnant well it would be good if i could finish my bar exams until the end of June and by then maybe even my thyroid doctor will give the green light (i have hypothyroidism and i need to keep it under control as well with pills) so we can start trying. there is no rush i just wanted to finish my bar exams to reach a certain point in my career. i am also terrified of not being able to conceive, and if yes, of giving birth and becoming a mother and not being the same person anymore but i guess it's kinda like that for most people. my best friend got pregnant not long ago and i had kind of a meltdown because i always imagined we would go through it together lol. but our time will come |
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Post by Fuckingperfect on Mar 12, 2018 19:03:07 GMT
I confess I am having second thoughts about this whole "recovery" project of mine. I am not eating enough, they say. I am not motivated, they say. I am not willing to change, they say. Well I've got news for you, Rome wasn't built in one day. I've worked my ass off like I've never done before, and in all of this, the reason why I relapsed in the first place, came hitting me like a bomb. I have been having flashbacks every day since. So who are they to tell ME I am NOT doing my job? Try to walk in my shoes for one minute, you'd run away in a second. Cut me some slack ffs, OR just fuck off. I am so done. Rant over.
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Post by Dani on Mar 12, 2018 19:24:35 GMT
"When someone feeds you", haha I love that. I remember texting Robin from the living room when his phone was in the kitchen so he got up to see who it was and I wrote bring me xxx. Haha. He was nice - like he didn't upset me for real, but more likely became a kid who just annoyed me. And I would normally maybe laugh about it if I wasn't PMS'ing so that. You seem to have a good one, don't let him go! I stopped taking them because I got this thing they promote here in Sweden a lot. You measure your temp every morning and put it in the app, and it gives you red and green days. Kinda like tracking it on your own but you don't really have to, it does it for you. It's good And I don't have to put in hormones in my body even if I had those pills that had the smallest amount of it because of my dad got thrombosis in his leg after a surgery so they didn't want me to continue with the "stronger" pills. What about you? I read kids somewhere in that FB group?! When are you guys planning if you don't mind me asking? hahaha that is very savvy. might use it too! yeah he's really the best. i cannot ever piss him off enough to make him love me less or hold any kind of shit against me. but i guess that should be normal?! lol haha i do the same thing, i use an app to track my ovulation based on my temperature just probably my green days are your red days since mine is to track good days to get pregnant well it would be good if i could finish my bar exams until the end of June and by then maybe even my thyroid doctor will give the green light (i have hypothyroidism and i need to keep it under control as well with pills) so we can start trying. there is no rush i just wanted to finish my bar exams to reach a certain point in my career. i am also terrified of not being able to conceive, and if yes, of giving birth and becoming a mother and not being the same person anymore but i guess it's kinda like that for most people. my best friend got pregnant not long ago and i had kind of a meltdown because i always imagined we would go through it together lol. but our time will come Ohh, I have some stuffs that's fucked up too. Mine's those "corpus luteum hormones" (I had to google translate it lol), I don't have enough of it. I was freaked out when I found out that I thought I would never probably get pregnant but now I'm like, ok there's a reason I'm made like this, if it's meant to be it will be and I'll do what it takes but if it's not enough then I'll just accept the way it is. My mom was 21 when she got me, and they couldn't get more kids after me so I'm thinking I'm almost 30 and it's probably gonna be impossible I hope things will work out for you guys. Just don't stress, like you said, give it time Good luck with you exams! I'm sure you'll nail it. You're a super woman and you'll be a great mom too |
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Post by Dani on Mar 12, 2018 19:27:11 GMT
I am also PMS-ing. Still on contraceptives. Without them I would lose and become severely anemic. It's still not grand, whether you have hormonal assist or not. <3 Hi! Good to see you on here. Sorry about PMS'ing. We're many on here as it seems. We can vent with each other |
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Post by Dani on Mar 12, 2018 19:33:12 GMT
I confess I am having second thoughts about this whole "recovery" project of mine. I am not eating enough, they say. I am not motivated, they say. I am not willing to change, they say. Well I've got news for you, Rome wasn't built in one day. I've worked my ass off like I've never done before, and in all of this, the reason why I relapsed in the first place, came hitting me like a bomb. I have been having flashbacks every day since. So who are they to tell ME I am NOT doing my job? Try to walk in my shoes for one minute, you'd run away in a second. Cut me some slack ffs, OR just fuck off. I am so done. Rant over. Nah. I mean, they are your doctors and they will tell you stuff like this unless you set the bar. Just saying. Even if you and me haven't had any contact for many years I still know you're fighting a long time with this and it's hard on you, but tell them what you just wrote here. It's the only way to meet half way and to make it work for you. Because, honestly if they'd known what you just wrote they wouldn't have expressed it this way, I'm sure. Maybe you come off stronger to them than you actually are? |
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Post by purple18 on Mar 13, 2018 11:51:15 GMT
hahaha that is very savvy. might use it too! yeah he's really the best. i cannot ever piss him off enough to make him love me less or hold any kind of shit against me. but i guess that should be normal?! lol haha i do the same thing, i use an app to track my ovulation based on my temperature just probably my green days are your red days since mine is to track good days to get pregnant well it would be good if i could finish my bar exams until the end of June and by then maybe even my thyroid doctor will give the green light (i have hypothyroidism and i need to keep it under control as well with pills) so we can start trying. there is no rush i just wanted to finish my bar exams to reach a certain point in my career. i am also terrified of not being able to conceive, and if yes, of giving birth and becoming a mother and not being the same person anymore but i guess it's kinda like that for most people. my best friend got pregnant not long ago and i had kind of a meltdown because i always imagined we would go through it together lol. but our time will come Ohh, I have some stuffs that's fucked up too. Mine's those "corpus luteum hormones" (I had to google translate it lol), I don't have enough of it. I was freaked out when I found out that I thought I would never probably get pregnant but now I'm like, ok there's a reason I'm made like this, if it's meant to be it will be and I'll do what it takes but if it's not enough then I'll just accept the way it is. My mom was 21 when she got me, and they couldn't get more kids after me so I'm thinking I'm almost 30 and it's probably gonna be impossible I hope things will work out for you guys. Just don't stress, like you said, give it time Good luck with you exams! I'm sure you'll nail it. You're a super woman and you'll be a great mom too oh crap that doesn't sound very good but i am pretty sure it's not unfixable! if you ever decide to have a baby you should not just give up on it but get it checked out because it might be easier to solve it than you expect! aw thank you. i try to do my best. in everything. well most things we'll see about the baby. first we're having a corgi though, in about 2 moths, so soon :o |
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Post by Danielle on Mar 13, 2018 14:34:13 GMT
I'm so good at embarrassing myself. I just wish I could show you my figurative heart and that my intentions are good. I don't mean to be annoying or rude (or worse). The last thing I would ever want is to upset anyone. Sigh. Never going to come close to "getting" this social thing.
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Post by Dani on Mar 13, 2018 16:39:31 GMT
I'm so good at embarrassing myself. I just wish I could show you my figurative heart and that my intentions are good. I don't mean to be annoying or rude (or worse). The last thing I would ever want is to upset anyone. Sigh. Never going to come close to "getting" this social thing. "Intensions are good", I'm not kidding you if I'm this close to get that tattooed somewhere. If there's some thoughts in life that's always been like coming back to me besides "what goes around comes around", it's that line. |
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Post by Dani on Mar 13, 2018 16:46:16 GMT
Ohh, I have some stuffs that's fucked up too. Mine's those "corpus luteum hormones" (I had to google translate it lol), I don't have enough of it. I was freaked out when I found out that I thought I would never probably get pregnant but now I'm like, ok there's a reason I'm made like this, if it's meant to be it will be and I'll do what it takes but if it's not enough then I'll just accept the way it is. My mom was 21 when she got me, and they couldn't get more kids after me so I'm thinking I'm almost 30 and it's probably gonna be impossible I hope things will work out for you guys. Just don't stress, like you said, give it time Good luck with you exams! I'm sure you'll nail it. You're a super woman and you'll be a great mom too oh crap that doesn't sound very good but i am pretty sure it's not unfixable! if you ever decide to have a baby you should not just give up on it but get it checked out because it might be easier to solve it than you expect! aw thank you. i try to do my best. in everything. well most things we'll see about the baby. first we're having a corgi though, in about 2 moths, so soon :o REALLY. Awww You have to post pics of the doggie. Have you met him/her yet? What name will you give it? I donno what it's like now. They just told me this when my period stopped coming. But I had like no fat on my body at all then so they said it could be a mix of the two. I'm heavier now So maybe it has something to do with that and all. Or the fact that I don't eat meat, I have no idea. I'll look it up once it's time to make babies ayyyy |
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my way of dealing with it is having as much "alone time" as possible, kinda also distancing myself from people. and i apologize for my behavior all the time but sadly only after shouting at him for putting his mug in the sink instead of the washing machine lol. every little thing feels like a tragedy and i feel like i cannot cope with everything that's coming up. so yeah i can relate 100% to what you are saying. i just need a cave to be alone, a ton of chocolate and a few good books 
mine lasts for about 4 days right before my period. during my period i am okay emotionally, then it is more challenging physically because even plucking my eyebrows hurts like a bitch and i get cramps but honestly in my case it is better than being the biggest bitch in the world.
so judging by what you said men cannot really deal with this very well lol 