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Post by Dani on Apr 6, 2018 18:45:06 GMT
Hahaha you little Simpsons nerd ❤️ Yeah. That one looks like a dude who had a huge pizza buffet and can’t even keep his tongue in because his mouth got enough😌
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Post by Danielle on Apr 6, 2018 21:29:11 GMT
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Post by Danielle on Apr 6, 2018 21:31:27 GMT
Just updated and fully charged my drone. Now to wait for a day without rain. 🧐
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Post by heehawes on Apr 6, 2018 22:41:16 GMT
Just do it..... You can worry about if you like it or not after the fact.
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Post by Fuckingperfect on Apr 7, 2018 1:32:44 GMT
Overthinking things to the point it leaves me sleepless. I hate the fact that I can't seem to fucking let go. It's eating me up inside. Feeling like life chewed, swallowed, and spat me out again. I'm a mess.
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Post by heehawes on Apr 7, 2018 11:24:07 GMT
Overthinking things to the point it leaves me sleepless. I hate the fact that I can't seem to fucking let go. It's eating me up inside. Feeling like life chewed, swallowed, and spat me out again. I'm a mess. I know what you mean.... Reflecting on things can be helpful, But you don’t want to dwell on the past to where it cripples you. I’ve done that over and over. try and make peace with things, and forgive yourself. we are only human. sometimes when I get caught up on things, I try to find something else to occupy my time, mind, and energy. do little things that make you happy. do something helpful and then reflect on that. let the good thoughts outshine the bad. ❤️
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Post by Fuckingperfect on Apr 7, 2018 17:21:38 GMT
Overthinking things to the point it leaves me sleepless. I hate the fact that I can't seem to fucking let go. It's eating me up inside. Feeling like life chewed, swallowed, and spat me out again. I'm a mess. I know what you mean.... Reflecting on things can be helpful, But you don’t want to dwell on the past to where it cripples you. I’ve done that over and over. try and make peace with things, and forgive yourself. we are only human. sometimes when I get caught up on things, I try to find something else to occupy my time, mind, and energy. do little things that make you happy. do something helpful and then reflect on that. let the good thoughts outshine the bad. ❤️ I would be a Guinness World Record holder of dwelling over the past, if that was a thing. I'm good at drowning myself with old shit. Thank you for the reminder ❤️. I am only human, and humans make mistakes, however I can't help but blaming myself for it. I'm sad like that I guess.. I am totally aware of me doing it though, and I keep getting reminded by staff at the treatment facility as well. It sort of gets to a point I can no longer control my overthinking, especially when my back ache is keeping me awake (which is the main reason for my sleep deprivation), and that gives me plenty of time to become more miserable, sleepless nights are the worst. Currently working on turning my life around, and old habits are hard to break. I eventually ended up sorting, organising, and playing with my hama beads after finding inspiration on Pinterest. So I guess I did something good for myself after all.
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Post by heehawes on Apr 8, 2018 0:56:33 GMT
I don’t know where I am on the line, between completely selfless and completely self centered.
I also can’t figure out where the correct place to be is, like where where we should aspire to be.
I’m pretty sure you don’t want to be “me, me, me” And I know people say you should hit some zen level where it’s about being good for everybody else.... But I also know to an extent you should do what makes YOU happy and say “fuck what anybody else thinks, I’m doing this for me...”
Also I know some people are twisted and do good as some weird form of propelling themselves into a “I did this because I’m beyond me and I’m so fucking great, check it out, I’m amazing, I saved the world”
I think I just wanna be hermit Luke. And live by myself in a cave on an island. Do nothing for the galaxy But do nothing for me either.
Just hang out and wait to turn into dust.
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Post by Dani on Apr 8, 2018 7:16:25 GMT
I don’t know where I am on the line, between completely selfless and completely self centered. I also can’t figure out where the correct place to be is, like where where we should aspire to be. I’m pretty sure you don’t want to be “me, me, me” And I know people say you should hit some zen level where it’s about being good for everybody else.... But I also know to an extent you should do what makes YOU happy and say “fuck what anybody else thinks, I’m doing this for me...” Also I know some people are twisted and do good as some weird form of propelling themselves into a “I did this because I’m beyond me and I’m so fucking great, check it out, I’m amazing, I saved the world” I think I just wanna be hermit Luke. And live by myself in a cave on an island. Do nothing for the galaxy But do nothing for me either. Just hang out and wait to turn into dust. It’s two weird in betweens kinda completely opposites. Like goofy and joking and being silly and acting like 15 and doing things for you, things that make you happy, not caring much about what anyone says but not being rude either, just live in the moment and then it goes into 55 politician and all serious wanna save the world not giving a crap about anything but the world and its people. I’ve litterally had these making my whole world for a period. And the middle of these two is the best I guess. But it’s kind of boring. I’m fine with moving between the two. I’ve found my peace there, ha ha. I’m trying to be less selfless with new people, as I’ve been used so many times because I just am too much in everything as a person. But I’m completely selfless when it comes to my closest friends and my family. They and their needs always go before me and always will. But I am not afraid to speak up and say if I think what they are doing is wrong. They know if I’m criticizing something it’s serious. One of my best friends cheated on her ex after they just got their baby. In my world you just don’t do that. And if you do you don’t lie about it. She kept going for six months. Fine her choice none of my problems but I still said what I thought. I cut her out when she asked me to lie for her as in making it up that I was with her when she was with the other guy. That’s when she crossed the line of having respect for me and only caring about herself. We didn’t hang out for like six months and after that she got caught and they split. We are best friends again and she said she should have listened to me and that she was happy I was the only one who even said to her that what she did was wrong. I donno where I’m going with this. But I think it’s important to stay true to your own values and dreams no matter who or what tries to lure you into something else, and to love and appreciate the people that matter to you and that you love and care for, and of course to keep a good heart no matter what happens or who hurt you. I guess that’s my conclusion to your question about selfless vs self centered. Can I come with you to that island? I can pretend I’m that wife ball.
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Post by Dani on Apr 8, 2018 11:34:39 GMT
I wannaaaaaaa. I thinkkkkkkk. Just do it..... You can worry about if you like it or not after the fact. Well I probably will now that I'm aware that hair is one of my phobias.
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Post by Dani on Apr 8, 2018 19:12:18 GMT
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Post by drnick on Apr 8, 2018 19:35:56 GMT
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Post by Dani on Apr 8, 2018 19:49:34 GMT
I'm thinking that a friend is pregnant but I'm kinda chickening out to even say anything. Like, I haven't seen her drink any alcohol or even for that matter talk about it for a couple of months. That's not like her. And she has this super glow like never before. Hm hm Uhm ... Yupp! #onpoint
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Post by purple18 on Apr 9, 2018 6:14:31 GMT
I'm thinking that a friend is pregnant but I'm kinda chickening out to even say anything. Like, I haven't seen her drink any alcohol or even for that matter talk about it for a couple of months. That's not like her. And she has this super glow like never before. Hm hm One advice though: NEVER ask a woman if they are pregnant. Ever. There is a reason why they are not talking about it, otherwise i sure as hell would want to tell the whole world.
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Post by Dani on Apr 9, 2018 6:42:14 GMT
I'm thinking that a friend is pregnant but I'm kinda chickening out to even say anything. Like, I haven't seen her drink any alcohol or even for that matter talk about it for a couple of months. That's not like her. And she has this super glow like never before. Hm hm One advice though: NEVER ask a woman if they are pregnant. Ever. There is a reason why they are not talking about it, otherwise i sure as hell would want to tell the whole world. Of course I know this I was asked once and my answer was nah I’m just very much into food now and they go omg uehmn and I say I don’t blame you for asking though it’s fine ha ha. But like, I also heard someone ask someone once and they got so pissed and upset. And I get that too, but come on. No one means anything bad with it.
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